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    Testament @farfalla
    last edited by 2 Aug 2022, 16:24

    @farfalla said in An Arx Peeve Thread:

    I’ve said it before, but declining to validate RS claims for undeserving scenes brings me joy. I also won’t give firstimpressions until I actually… have one. So I often don’t return those, either.

    Absolutely. It’s especially frustrating when you come across a RS or a FI from someone who you didn’t even interact with. The good example of this is when you’re in a large scene with a lot of people and you’re just randomly getting RS’s from people that, yes, were in the same room as you, but you didn’t talk towards or have any kind of action towards.

    I understand that it’s just extra RP for folks, and maybe I’m just being old and shaking my cane at things, but it means so much more when you get one from one person that talks about how that interaction went, and not just “met x at y and did z. good person”.

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      farfalla @Testament
      last edited by 2 Aug 2022, 16:27

      @Testament You still get the xp even if you don’t validate the claim! Profit without rewarding bad behavior.

      as previously stated, good day.

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        sao
        last edited by 2 Aug 2022, 16:33

        Whenever I get firstimpressions for running an event so like… someone is talking about some eulogy I gave, I don’t do a firstimpression because I think my legit firstimpression as Aureth would be “Who?”

        let it be a challenge to you

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          Snackness @sao
          last edited by 2 Aug 2022, 16:34

          @sao indiana jones eyelid

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            Roz @sao
            last edited by 2 Aug 2022, 16:35

            @sao said in An Arx Peeve Thread:

            Whenever I get firstimpressions for running an event so like… someone is talking about some eulogy I gave, I don’t do a firstimpression because I think my legit firstimpression as Aureth would be “Who?”

            Yeah I’ve sometimes gotten FI’s when Aleksei does a duel or whatnot, and I think they’re legit! You get a first impression of someone who’s performing a thing for you. I just can’t respond to them yet because my PC hasn’t met theirs.

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              helvetica
              last edited by 2 Aug 2022, 16:38

              One of my memorable FIs said my PC should smile more, and then the person reached out a day or two later to apologize saying they were asking for it to be removed, and then a month or two later they were banned for toxic and manipulative behavior. 🤗

              Street Cred

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                Roz @helvetica
                last edited by 2 Aug 2022, 16:39

                @helvetica said in An Arx Peeve Thread:

                One of my memorable FIs said my PC should smile more, and then the person reached out a day or two later to apologize saying they were asking for it to be removed, and then a month or two later they were banned for toxic and manipulative behavior. 🤗

                gotta admit, i loled. what a journey that sentence was

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                  Testament @helvetica
                  last edited by 2 Aug 2022, 16:43

                  @helvetica

                  bullet dodged

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                    tsar @helvetica
                    last edited by 2 Aug 2022, 16:51

                    @helvetica said in An Arx Peeve Thread:

                    One of my memorable FIs said my PC should smile more, and then the person reached out a day or two later to apologize saying they were asking for it to be removed, and then a month or two later they were banned for toxic and manipulative behavior. 🤗

                    This was the first player I ever paged in an official capacity

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                      helvetica @tsar
                      last edited by 2 Aug 2022, 16:55

                      @tsar

                      touched

                      Street Cred

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                        Rathenhope @tsar
                        last edited by 2 Aug 2022, 17:03

                        @tsar I’ll page you in an official capacity

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                          Ashkuri @Tori
                          last edited by 2 Aug 2022, 17:13

                          @Tori

                          A chick who is now banned once FI’d me with, deadass, “Who are you again?”

                          girl why lol

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                            tsar @Rathenhope
                            last edited by 2 Aug 2022, 17:19

                            @Rathenhope said in An Arx Peeve Thread:

                            @tsar I’ll page you in an official capacity

                            Don’t threaten me with a good time

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                              Rathenhope @tsar
                              last edited by 2 Aug 2022, 17:22

                              @tsar challenge accepted

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                                sao
                                last edited by 2 Aug 2022, 17:26

                                A dude once put gross stuff abt a couple of female inquisitors and their sexuality in FIs of female inquisitors that were interrogating him IC about a thing. Staff removed it promptly upon +request and he apologized OOC for going too far, but it left such a sour taste in my brain that I still remember it enough that I don’t want to rp with the player. That gross-ass sexist shit was still the first place dude went, yknow?

                                let it be a challenge to you

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                                  farfalla @sao
                                  last edited by 2 Aug 2022, 17:29

                                  @sao First of all, gross.

                                  Second, I think a lot of people use FIs to kinda test the waters of possible romance, or give a hint (sometimes more than a hint) that they’d be interested.

                                  as previously stated, good day.

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                                    crawfish @farfalla
                                    last edited by 2 Aug 2022, 17:31

                                    @farfalla I use them quite literally and if I don’t have an actual first impression I won’t leave one.

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                                      Mourne @farfalla
                                      last edited by 2 Aug 2022, 17:36

                                      @farfalla said in An Arx Peeve Thread:

                                      @sao First of all, gross.

                                      Second, I think a lot of people use FIs to kinda test the waters of possible romance, or give a hint (sometimes more than a hint) that they’d be interested.

                                      I dunno anything about this system, as my Arx OC was just put in for approval today, but wouldn’t something along the lines of:

                                      Damn!

                                      Be appropriate first impression if that was the characters first impression of another?

                                      Worded more appropriately and thematically maybe?

                                      Asking for reals, since I have no idea what sort of first impressions are… wanted?

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                                        farfalla @Mourne
                                        last edited by farfalla 8 Feb 2022, 17:41 2 Aug 2022, 17:39

                                        @Mourne If you go to a character’s page, you can look at the bottom for public FIs, to get examples. Eleanor.

                                        Edit: I forgot Eleanor’s were broken so there’s only a couple. Try Aleksei.

                                        as previously stated, good day.

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                                          Roz @Mourne
                                          last edited by 2 Aug 2022, 17:40

                                          @Mourne said in An Arx Peeve Thread:

                                          @farfalla said in An Arx Peeve Thread:

                                          @sao First of all, gross.

                                          Second, I think a lot of people use FIs to kinda test the waters of possible romance, or give a hint (sometimes more than a hint) that they’d be interested.

                                          I dunno anything about this system, as my Arx OC was just put in for approval today, but wouldn’t something along the lines of:

                                          Damn!

                                          Be appropriate first impression if that was the characters first impression of another?

                                          Worded more appropriately and thematically maybe?

                                          Asking for reals, since I have no idea what sort of first impressions are… wanted?

                                          If I got that FI when my character was doing something notably cool or impressive, like one of my characters is a fancy duelist type so maybe the other PC was watching the duel, or my other character was doing a performance or something, I’d find an FI of “Damn!” to be totally apt. Or, to be honest, even if my socialite character just arrived at a fancy party in a super impressive gown or something like that, being her socialite self. It’s succinct, but gets the point across!

                                          You can actually look at examples on people’s character pages, too. Both sides have to set an FI as public for it to show up there, but – oh I see @farfalla has said this while I’ve been typing! Aleksei is another one in that I know a lot of mine are set public there so you can see them.

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