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Suspected Superhero Creeping Or Something
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@Meg said in Suspected Superhero Creeping Or Something:
Can we hear some examples of what they were doing?
This is a fair ask, but it is not my place to tell stories that were told to me in confidence. I don’t believe any of the individuals I’ve been talking to even have BMD accounts, and I think only one has an MSB account, so it seems unlikely to me they will tell their own stories.
All I feel comfortable saying is, I don’t believe this this was a sudden thing. People have been complaining about him to me about his behavior for a while now, across at least two alts whose names I caught.
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@GF said in Suspected Superhero Creeping Or Something:
@Meg said in Suspected Superhero Creeping Or Something:
Can we hear some examples of what they were doing?
This is a fair ask, but it is not my place to tell stories that were told to me in confidence.
I get that, but in that case you should not even bring them up.
This is what Runescryer also said. “People have told me x! So much x! But I can’t say who or give details, that’s for them to do if they want.”
It’s a suspicious look. If you were sworn to secrecy, keep the fkin secret and shhhh.
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@hellfrog said in Suspected Superhero Creeping Or Something:
@GF said in Suspected Superhero Creeping Or Something:
@Meg said in Suspected Superhero Creeping Or Something:
Can we hear some examples of what they were doing?
This is a fair ask, but it is not my place to tell stories that were told to me in confidence.
I get that, but in that case you should not even bring them up.
This is what Runescryer also said. “People have told me x! So much x! But I can’t say who or give details, that’s for them to do if they want.”
It’s a suspicious look. If you were sworn to secrecy, keep the fkin secret and shhhh.
On the one hand, I’d like to agree with this - simply because it makes life easier if we only assess claims based on evidence.
On the other, knowing that there are others out there with similar experiences - even if they’re unvoiced - can be a catalyst to people speaking out about their experiences too.
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@hellfrog I didn’t bring them up for you or for this audience. I brought them up for Lithium, on the chance that they really believe they did their best at all times and is just the subject of some malicious conspiracy. If that is the case, then it may help them to do better if they knows how many people felt uncomfortable enough around them to leave channels they were on and avoid events they signed up for. It may inspire them to reflect and to think about how their behavior looks to others.
If they, or anyone else, will not believe me because I do not provide details, then that is unfortunate, but I did the best I could while obeying my conscience. You can choose to believe whomever you find more convincing, and I sincerely hope your choice works out for you.
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as someone who has had nameless ‘others’ used against me multiple times even when i know i have never done shit to anyone-- i am probably super touchy about this subject.
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@Meg That is perfectly valid, and I’m sorry it’s happened to you.
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Based on anon reporting, I am the most reviled player on my primary game, after all.
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@GF It’s not really about believing or disbelieving, it’s about breaking confidences that are purportedly keeping you from giving details.
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@GF It’s really not difficult to not use he/him pronouns when the person in question has specifically mentioned they’re not correct. So, stop.
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@GF said in Suspected Superhero Creeping Or Something:
@hellfrog I didn’t bring them up for you or for this audience. I brought them up for Lithium, on the chance that he really believes he did his best at all times and is just the subject of some malicious conspiracy. If that is the case, then it may help him to do better if he knows how many people felt uncomfortable enough around him to leave channels he was on and avoid events he signed up for. It may inspire him to reflect and to think about how his behavior looks to others.
If he, or anyone else, will not believe me because I do not provide details, then that is unfortunate, but I did the best I could while obeying my conscience. You can choose to believe whomever you find more convincing, and I sincerely hope your choice works out for you.
What’s “a while”?
Because @Lithium was only on the game for 9 days (Warren was approved on the 13th based on the New Arrivals forum), and they played Warren and Lobo.
Macha played Pepper/Betsy/and apparently Bobbi.
Someone else played Scott, and I wanna know more about that guy! we know why Macha got banned. What did the Scott player do that got them booted?
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@Pavel said in Suspected Superhero Creeping Or Something:
@GF It’s really not difficult to not use he/him pronouns when the person in question has specifically mentioned they’re not correct. So, stop.
You’re right, I’m sorry. I wasn’t thinking.
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@Coin or was scott also lithium??? who knows. this plot is thicc. and you already have more info than me, because i don’t play the game and wasn’t willing to even go look at ban notices, apparently.
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@Coin My favourite part of this conversation is that the character names are all bland normal-people names.
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@Coin said in Suspected Superhero Creeping Or Something:
What’s “a while”?
About a week.
What did the Scott player do that got them booted?
I wouldn’t know. No one ever mentioned him to me, as far as I’m aware.
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@Meg said in Suspected Superhero Creeping Or Something:
@Coin or was scott also lithium??? who knows. this plot is thicc. and you already have more info than me, because i don’t play the game and wasn’t willing to even go look at ban notices, apparently.
Well, if you go look at who Scott was handletagged as, it’s “@pru”, while Warren/Lobo were handletagged, “@Cinder”.
I suppose that @Lithium could have, like, had two different handles or something? But Occam’s Razor tells me that’s two different people.
I remember the last time someone challenged me on Occam’s Razor.
<.<
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@Coin are you saying you’re infallible, coin? because i’m gonna take that as a challenge.
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@Meg said in Suspected Superhero Creeping Or Something:
@Coin are you saying your infallible, coin? because i’m gonna take that as a challenge.
no, i’m saying you spelled ‘you’re’ wrong.
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@Coin hello excuse me i am dying from getting my covid and flu shot yesterday, be nice.
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@Coin said in Suspected Superhero Creeping Or Something:
I remember the last time someone challenged me on Occam’s Razor.
careful you don’t slice your taint