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      Warlander @Buttercup
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      @Buttercup Hopes, love, best wishes, and prayers for you and yours. Hope you not only pull through, but get better faster than anyone expects was possible.

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        Buttercup @Warlander
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        @Warlander

        Gonna make it surgeries later.

        They thought it was Staph it was Strep A Necrotic Fasciitis. I was doing evacuations and a power chair user was partially under water and they didn’t know how to free his chair restraints. I went in to help and felt a light scratch on my buttocks while I was getting his lap belt undone (typically we stay in our vans but I volunteered on this).

        Went to the trailer to shower and it hurt there. The night was chills and fever and it got to be a baseball size lump under my buttock.

        Went to the ER to lance it and got it drained they gave me bactrum for Staph.

        Two days later of fever and chills had one of my employees drove me home to Texas for a better hospital and went to emergency surgery as it was near my rectum and the tunneling.

        Two surgeries later I have a huge open wound no flesh but the wound culture came back with what to target and that worked. Had it got to my rectum my mortality chances would have gone up huge.

        Now six weeks or so of healing these open chasms and praying it doesn’t come back or get infected. Should be okay (alive). But given the location and severity bed ridden a long time.

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          SockMonkey @Buttercup
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          @Buttercup Checking in to say you are both thought of and cared about. Hope your healing is going well. Not sure if you’re in the storm areas, but hope you’re staying safe through those too if yes.

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            Warlander @Buttercup
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            @Buttercup I salute you for doing a job I can’t do, and for injuries received in the line of duty. Deeply sorry it had to happen to you, but glad you’re on the mend. Hope the recovery is very swift and smooth, especially given how rocky the road thus far has been.

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              BloodAngel
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                BloodAngel
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                Never mind he asked me to not share it. Friend life was on fire, he asked me not to post it here as I did. So sorry.

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                  junipersky Administrators
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                  Child has informed me that my therapy is stupid, but hers is essential. I don’t need therapy because I’m an adult, and she does need it because she’s a kid.

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                    Pavel @junipersky
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                    @junipersky Tell child that her therapist goes to therapy.

                    He/Him. Opinions and views are solely my own unless specifically stated otherwise.
                    BE AN ADULT

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                      Snackness @junipersky
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                      @junipersky She has no idea wtf she’s talking about because she’s a child. You don’t have to/probably shouldn’t tell her that, but you can hold it close to your heart and tell yourself that her opinion in this situation has no weight.

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                        Juniper
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                        Kids are so funny.

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                            Snackness
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                            My mom doesn’t remember my name. I knew it was coming, but…still sucks.

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                              kalakh @Snackness
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                              @Snackness said in Real Life Struggles/Support/Vent:

                              My mom doesn’t remember my name. I knew it was coming, but…still sucks.

                              I lost my dad to this sort of thing this year, it’s awful. I am so, so sorry you (and your mom) are having to deal with it.

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                                RightMeow @Snackness
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                                @Snackness

                                All the love. I’ve been through this and even if it is expected, it isn’t easy. We are here if you want to talk.

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                                  junipersky Administrators
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                                  I know it is hard and I respect people wanting privacy so much.

                                  Kid walks in this morning crying. His father died over break, like, early break. It is true. Teacher is blindsided and has no idea what kind of supports are needed.

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                                    Kestrel
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                                    I hope everyone who lives in or has loved ones in LA is safe.

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                                      Roadspike
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                                      The parent(s) of student(s) at my district were picked up by ICE and detained. The student(s) are with family, but it’s still shaking up this tiny-ass rural, progressive island community. And it’s shaking up me too even if I’m white as Wonder Bread.

                                      Formerly known as Seraphim73 (he/him)

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                                      • juniperskyJ
                                        junipersky Administrators
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                                        Child’s parents are having their termination of rights trial this week. On the advise of all of the professionals husband and I did not go. Our kiddo is the most emotionally affected and we want to be present for her - and also not hear/see the garbage/evidence put up and have it impact our opinions on things. (We know that the parents are going to try to paint the kids as liars who just made up stories during the forensic interviews, and that the county is putting up poster sized images of what kiddo has drawn in her journals.)

                                        But hearing NOTHING is driving me beyond madness. Especially since child is home sick with a fever I’m 95% sure is nerves. (She wants to go home to mom and dad but also can’t argue that she feels safe and loved with us and doesn’t want to leave us either.)

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                                          junipersky Administrators
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                                          So the trial… isn’t over. They ran out of time and so scheduled an additional two days in June. We aren’t very happy about the 60 extra days the defense gets but bio parents haven’t made much movement in the last 24 months, so what can legit happen in 60 days? That is eight more visits with the kids apiece.

                                          Kiddo didn’t go to visit this last week because she had a fever - and she has been amazing. We are babying her a lot, but she is still getting upset about stuff then COMING BACK to regulation without losing her mind. Our only big battle was getting her back into her own bed from the nest wr made her on the floor next to ours.

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                                            Snackness
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                                            We are trying to figure out if my mom is “actively dying”. Dementia fucking sucks.

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