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    • PavelP
      Pavel @Tez
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      @Tez said in On the utility of Logs, Receipts, and Proof:

      I wish all of my enemies only had good things to say about me.

      It’s okay.

      Nobody talks about you.

      He/Him. Opinions and views are solely my own unless specifically stated otherwise.
      BE AN ADULT

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      • TezT
        Tez Administrators @Pavel
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        @Pavel devastated

        she/they

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        • JennkrystJ
          Jennkryst @GF
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          @GF I will take part of the blame for pointing out that MSB was dead for like two weeks, and maybe summoned somebody upset by that fact and NEEDED to come stir shit. My bad.

          Mummy Pun? MUMMY PUN!
          She/her

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          • RozR
            Roz @GF
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            @GF said in On the utility of Logs, Receipts, and Proof:

            @Roz I’m sorry if I shouldn’t have said anything, but the mods want to know if this is happening to anyone else and wanted me to be the one to ask since if I’m the only one getting this kind of hatemail, them asking if anyone else has done it would out me anyway.

            Oh my gosh, no not at all!! I was going WTF at JKER for the behavior you described.

            she/her | playlist

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              mietze
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              I don’t understand. How is that NOT creepy-ass behavior?

              Someone cold DMs someone here about how IoleRae is a bad person, after them kind of really sharply reacting to her in the first place in the thread more strongly than anyone else replying, linking to MSB about a thread they claim she’s being a bad person in?

              I’m sorry, but that’s just gross. And she’s already had to deal with a weirdo trying to poke at her here pretty publicly early on.

              It’s true that IR is a friend, but as someone who was only kind of skimming I was like wow this dude has it out for her for some weird reason. A DM like that to a 3rd party is not a good sign.

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              • PavelP
                Pavel @mietze
                last edited by Pavel

                @mietze said in On the utility of Logs, Receipts, and Proof:

                I don’t understand. How is that NOT creepy-ass behavior?

                It’s being a creepy asshole, sure. We’re restricted from acting unless it’s:

                @Tez said in GOOD DAY:

                Repeated and egregious crossing of the asshole/troll line such that it makes the board an unpleasant place to be.

                That’s why we want to know if others have experienced the same thing.

                He/Him. Opinions and views are solely my own unless specifically stated otherwise.
                BE AN ADULT

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                • TezT
                  Tez Administrators @mietze
                  last edited by

                  @mietze It’s asshole behavior, but I’m not sure it’s bannable behavior. We haven’t really finished discussing.

                  she/they

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                  • PavelP
                    Pavel @Tez
                    last edited by Pavel

                    Blanking the post to remove a badly thought out joke. Leaving post so the curious can see the edit log.

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                    BE AN ADULT

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                      mietze @Pavel
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                      @Pavel Wow. OK.

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                      • PavelP
                        Pavel @mietze
                        last edited by

                        @mietze It was a reference, from the before times. >_>

                        He/Him. Opinions and views are solely my own unless specifically stated otherwise.
                        BE AN ADULT

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                          mietze @Pavel
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                          @pavel that was a pretty hellish time for me. i didn’t appreciate my name being invoked then and i don’t now. didn’t think that could hurt still but it sure does.

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                          • PavelP
                            Pavel @mietze
                            last edited by

                            @mietze I am enormously sorry. I didn’t think before I wrote.

                            He/Him. Opinions and views are solely my own unless specifically stated otherwise.
                            BE AN ADULT

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                              IoleRae @Pavel
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                              • TezT
                                Tez Administrators @IoleRae
                                last edited by Tez

                                Deleted since IoleRae deleted.

                                she/they

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                                • IoleRaeI
                                  IoleRae @GF
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                                  @GF

                                  Thank you.

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                                    mietze @Pavel
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                                    @Pavel i appreciate the apology. I hope you understand why it felt like a very low blow.

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                                      Warma Sheen @mietze
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                                      @mietze said in On the utility of Logs, Receipts, and Proof:

                                      I don’t understand. How is that NOT creepy-ass behavior?

                                      I don’t understand how that is. Sending someone a link to a forum post doesn’t really rate for me, specifically in the context of the conversation being had.

                                      In fact, it just kind of reinforces the argument that anyone can call anyone else creepy just to weaponize the term and expect everyone else to take it seriously.

                                      Do I agree with anything that was said or done? No. But calling someone creepy just to trigger people’s alarms on them is also problematic. They can be held accountable for their more accurately described behavior.

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                                      • PavelP
                                        Pavel @Warma Sheen
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                                        @Warma-Sheen said in On the utility of Logs, Receipts, and Proof:

                                        I don’t understand how that is.

                                        Sending private messages to someone with whom you have no prior association, simply to dredge up an old discussion with vague allusions to how this thread makes a third party a bigot or otherwise horrible? That’s pretty fuckin’ creepy.

                                        He/Him. Opinions and views are solely my own unless specifically stated otherwise.
                                        BE AN ADULT

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                                        • helveticaH
                                          helvetica
                                          last edited by

                                          @JKER said in On the utility of Logs, Receipts, and Proof:

                                          I suggest you either just ban them off the bat or you offer actionable advise which the sexpests will still ignore

                                          Couldn’t have said it better. We’re witnessing a poorly executed attempt to start to a whisper campaign. Gotta say if this was a game we were all playing on, I would want to see this person gone.

                                          sorry to that man

                                          But we’re not on a game? I’m on the fence, it’s early, and I don’t yet have my good words. I do know that I place a higher value on making sure two existing members of our community feel comfortable in this space than I do on being fair to some rando.

                                          Street Cred

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                                          • PavelP
                                            Pavel @helvetica
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                                            @helvetica Agreed.

                                            He hurt my friend, so while I’ve expressed my opinion in the admin group chat (not as exciting as it sounds), I’m not putting forward any official vote so as to avoid bias.

                                            Were it up to me, I’d personally set this person on fire.

                                            He/Him. Opinions and views are solely my own unless specifically stated otherwise.
                                            BE AN ADULT

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