Asking for RP
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@GF said in Asking for RP:
One thing I appreciate about Ares is that if we’re going to maintain the idea that scenes must have a minimum length to be valid, then async posing at least allows you to spread yourself to more than one person at a time.
The flipside of this (and I
Ares all day every day) is that it can make it real hard to END a scene, especially if it’s not a scene that started with a goal or purpose. The default assumption that someone will “pose out” when they need to leave a scene seems to be sliding toward “we’ll pause the scene and pickup tomorrow.” Which is great if the scene has some kind of mileage left in it, but if we’re really just :takes a drink and laughs at the conversation… I’m good to wrap, thanks.I stopped going to even pre-planned social events on one game 'cause I don’t like being trapped in the equivalent of Bar RP for three days.
@shit-piss-love said in Asking for RP:
Even when playing a PC I see them more as a vehicle for story and drama than a character that is personal to me that I am inhabiting. I’ll go just as deep into a character exploration as anyone but it’s got to feel to me like doing so is appropriate to the drama of the character or the beats of a story.
I think this is what I mean when I say my RP has to have a purpose. That doesn’t always have to be metaplot-related. It could be a strictly social purpose, but the purpose still has to be there.
Slice-of-life is charming, but once I finished my slice, I’m not just gonna sit here licking the plate endlessly. I need more to do.
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@Faraday said in Asking for RP:
@farfalla said in Asking for RP:
My characters suddenly have somewhere to be all the time. Oops, gotta get back to work bye!
Collectively - does this actually work? It’s a convenient IC excuse to get out of a scene, but in my experience people still get bent out of shape if you stop RPing with them and go RP with someone else instead. Like: “Oh so I’m not good enough to hold your attention?” (never so directly of course)
I don’t think that “this works without upsetting or offending anyone” is really a bar we can hold to on MU*s. As you said, there are always people who will get bent out of shape at the idea that someone doesn’t want to RP with them. I unfortunately don’t think that’s avoidable. If I exit a scene because I’m not having fun and someone wants to get offended at it – that’s not a me problem. And it doesn’t mean that exiting a scene when you’re not having fun is bad.
Sometimes, if people get bent out of shape, the answer is to just let them and walk away.
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@Roz Sometimes its not even ‘not having fun’ but just ‘less fun’ because a scene has reached a very natural stopping point, but some need/expectation to ‘keep on RPing because I’ll still be around’ just causes people to linger.
I’m generally a fan of just letting a scene come to an end rather than force it to continue for the sake of more playing – even if afterwards I’m sometimes like, hmm, I want to keep playing, maybe I shouldn’t have left!
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I notice this far less when there’s usually an unspoken agreement between the players that the point of the scene has come to a close.
I understand that doesn’t always happen, but a good deal of players seem to be cognizant of it.
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Yeah, I have been in many very fun and diverting 1.5 hour or even 1 hour scenes that became kinda tedious 3 hour scenes. I do just leave when I’m done now, though I def feel self-conscious about searching for other RP right away. It’s no shade to anyone, pick-up RP just runs its course eventually.
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I just do the same thing I do in real life and say I have somewhere to be. Sometimes that’s even true!
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Man I just pose out and go “Thanks for the RP!”
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@Roz said in Asking for RP:
I don’t think that “this works without upsetting or offending anyone” is really a bar we can hold to on MU*s. As you said, there are always people who will get bent out of shape at the idea that someone doesn’t want to RP with them. I unfortunately don’t think that’s avoidable.
Well there’s a difference between “this behavior may annoy someone” and “this behavior is likely to annoy almost everyone”. The latter has been more my experience but YMMV.
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@Faraday said in Asking for RP:
@Pavel said in Asking for RP:
I’ve just started playing somewhat energetic characters who announce when they’re bored and leave to do other things. Lifesaver.
@farfalla said in Asking for RP:
My characters suddenly have somewhere to be all the time. Oops, gotta get back to work bye!
Collectively - does this actually work? It’s a convenient IC excuse to get out of a scene, but in my experience people still get bent out of shape if you stop RPing with them and go RP with someone else instead. Like: “Oh so I’m not good enough to hold your attention?” (never so directly of course)
Eeeeh… I’m picky enough with my RP partners lately that I feel comfortable enough communicating with them OOC about it. So mine is probably not the best example to use. And due to that pickiness I don’t get as much RP as I might like.
But I have my boundaries, and I’m starting to stick to them.
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It’s impossible to play on a Mu* anymore for me. Asking for RP and finding RP is such a chore and then when it’s found it’s usually some weird slice-of-life stuff that people want to play, which in a lot of cases isn’t what I’m looking for.
So it’s a constant circle of building PCs, getting amped, trying to find something to do, and failing and just realizing hours/days/weeks/months/whatever of my life has been wasted.
