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MU Peeves Thread
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If a handful of people are RPing in public and the scene comes to a natural close it happens just when somebody new walks in. Disproportionately frequently.
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Some days I’m having an antisocial mood, where I’d like a magic button to become instantly anonymous in communities that know me too well, log on, talk to no one, and just RP as my character for a bit, without having to exist as Kestrel that day.
It is a ridiculous want, especially when other days I’m content to eat the cake I’d otherwise have. But I want it, all the same.
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Not a new peeve, but a classic peeve.
That weird vibe you get when you feel like someone has some kind of OOC problem with you but you have literally no idea why and neither are you wholly sure if that’s what’s even going on if it’s just in your head, and you’re just imagining shit because well, why wouldn’t you.
And the moment you want to reach out and ask, ‘Hey have I done something to tick you off?’ you feel like it’s going to be an issue.
So you just kind of sit there and stew in your thoughts.
I don't know what I'm doing. Poke at Seven Nations sevennations.aresmush.com port 2021
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@Testament
So much this. So much.I hope it passes for you though.
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@Testament said in MU Peeves Thread:
Not a new peeve, but a classic peeve.
That weird vibe you get when you feel like someone has some kind of OOC problem with you but you have literally no idea why and neither are you wholly sure if that’s what’s even going on if it’s just in your head, and you’re just imagining shit because well, why wouldn’t you.
And the moment you want to reach out and ask, ‘Hey have I done something to tick you off?’ you feel like it’s going to be an issue.
So you just kind of sit there and stew in your thoughts.
I get this periodically. (Periodically, he says, I get it constantly).
I’m just trying to tell myself it’s
- Some sort of post-covid socialization dysfunction that seems to be afflicting me and possibly a lot of people, the reality of it is nothing is actually wrong.
or
- A “them” problem as opposed to a “me” problem and if they can’t be bothered to be open about it, fuck them. I don’t have time to troubleshoot someone else’s coward-brain, I have my own to deal with.
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@SpaceKhomeini said in MU Peeves Thread:
- A “them” problem as opposed to a “me” problem and if they can’t be bothered to be open about it, fuck them. I don’t have time to troubleshoot someone else’s coward-brain, I have my own to deal with.
This reminds me of a conflict I had with a co-worker some years ago. Admittedly, I had screwed up and upset this person who I did consider a friend, but I had no idea it was upsetting, and only heard through another person. I remember it being for something super petty but blew up into a bigger thing. And when I heard I went to talk to them about it, notably to apologize and that I hadn’t known it was upsetting. And they just didn’t want to resolve or talk about it or anything. But still held it against me personally.
Eventually I just decided that, you know what? No, I’m not going to handhold your feelings anymore and trying to placate to your bruised ego. This is a you problem especially after I tried to resolve it in a matter that hopefully, would be good for everyone. So you staying mad is a you issue, because you want to stay mad. So stay salty if it’s that important to you.
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@Testament Nobody’s obligated to forgive the repentant, but nobody’s obligated to think well of people who refuse to forgive, either!
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For fuck’s sake, if you are using a published RPG, don’t make a fucking house rule that directly contradicts the published rules after some poor player made a choice based on the published rules, and then force them to live with their “IC consequences.”
'You ride the mechanical bull, you do not fight it.'
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@Gashlycrumb That is fucked!
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@Gashlycrumb Surely “Heads I Win, Tails You Lose” is clearly listed as a Game Policy in the FAQ.
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@Gashlycrumb said in MU Peeves Thread:
For fuck’s sake, if you are using a published RPG, don’t make a fucking house rule that directly contradicts the published rules after some poor player made a choice based on the published rules, and then force them to live with their “IC consequences.”
gimme deeeeeeets
In Occam I trust.
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@Coin I ought not to, really, as it didn’t happen to me.
Well, it did on another occasion, but like, two years ago now and on a different game. That one had only been open for like six weeks at the time, so it wasn’t so shitty. Except for the bit where the ruling wasn’t actually in direct contradiction to the rules, just eyeball-searingly stupid and accompanied by a lie that it was common to MUs and I a bad player for not knowing to ask if it was in place.
'You ride the mechanical bull, you do not fight it.'
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@Gashlycrumb That’s literally the opposite of details, man. Spill!
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I don’t like playing with people’s personal NPCs.
I don’t even really like playing with metaplot NPCs if I can avoid it, but super not into meeting some character’s gramma on-camera.
Using them as a quick prop in a scene? Even giving them some depth and flavor with the occasional on-camera moment? All good.
But I get super-bored meeting random NPCs from someone’s background.
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I want to RP, but I am physically and emotionally miserable at the moment. I want to RP so bad tho.
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I’m glum about a circumstance that I can’t really talk about with anyone and it’s just one of those things where I wish I had some no-judgment RP therapist to vent at. I feel dumb about it, but then also angry and hurt and offended and sad and scared/anxious. The answer is to walk away, but I don’t want to walk away. Meh. I’ll get over it.
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@KarmaBum I rather like meeting NPCs. But I hate deals where I get the impression that the lion’s share, no, the giant fucking manticore’s share, of significant action is between metaplot NPCs, and/or where those PCs who have plot related agency are all doing it via NPC retainers.
If I wanted non-interactive situations where I can’t see what’s going on, well, there’s shitloads of teevee that fits the bill and is a lot more entertaining. If I wanted a play-by-email I’d have joined one.
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The ever present feeling that people are RPing with me because game policy says they have to include people in public spaces, but secretly they wish I would just go away.
(Which is wholly rooted in my own brain, and absolutely not anyone making me feel unwelcome.)
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@Cobalt Are you me?
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@Popes That’s the last thing we need, Pope Cobalt.
