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Good things in Mushing
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@L-B-Heuschkel said in Good things in Mushing:
… anyhow, yeah. What’s got me down a bit has nothing to do with this particular game. More a bleh in general at how there’s always one or two people in the hobby who seem to spread meh wherever they look.
You’re right. There are always energy sucks, unfortunately. Sometimes it is overt and toxic; sometimes it is a more covert sort of meh.
But I think that – as a hobby, as a culture, as a community – we have become better about guarding our time. About building our boundaries. ABOUT NOT BEING GIGANTIC SPONGES, @tsar, THIS IS A CALLOUT POST.
I gotta say that seeing Arx just be like ‘yeah you know what? this person isn’t building a community we want, please leave’ was like big shocked pikachu moment. Like, OH MY GOD? WE CAN DO THAT? We DON’T have to spend two years carefully assembling threads of evidence of bad behavior for an air-tight case???
Even being smarter about our boundaries, time, and emotional energy, though, they can still be EXTREMELY draining and it is hard to always recharge that energy when there is so much else going on in the world to challenge replenishment. So. I’m sorry. Uh. Have some ponies:
(And now you must identify them.)
she/they
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@L-B-Heuschkel hahahah. the campsites all have pony-proof boxes under the picnic tables that you have to store all food in, like bear boxes.
as previously stated, good day.
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@farfalla said in Good things in Mushing:
@L-B-Heuschkel hahahah. the campsites all have pony-proof boxes under the picnic tables that you have to store all food in, like bear boxes.
Begging the question of who’s smarter – a pony or a bear?
Knowing my pinto feral pony, I know who I’m voting for.
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@Tez said in Good things in Mushing:
I gotta say that seeing Arx just be like ‘yeah you know what? this person isn’t building a community we want, please leave’ was like big shocked pikachu moment. Like, OH MY GOD? WE CAN DO THAT? We DON’T have to spend two years carefully assembling threads of evidence of bad behavior for an air-tight case???
We absolutely will punt people for ruining the community or trying to. No mercy and no need to build a watertight case, this is not a courtroom.
Unfortunately, though, being thoroughly dislikeable and a constant drain on my patience is not a banishable offence.
(And now you must identify them.)
… Well, the white one with the red head is named Wildfire, and I think the palomino pinto is Misty III, but… XD
Any pronouns. Come to Chincoteague. We have ponies. http://keys.aresmush.com
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@L-B-Heuschkel I’ve never had to ban someone from my game as of yet and I consider myself lucky for the fact that these problems haven’t cropped up as of yet. I’ve worked very hard on created an area where the players feel safe and don’t have to worry about harassment of any kind. This has allowed some players to really take that comfort into coming into their own, something that I’m proud of.
It’s going to happen, eventually, now that the game is more open, that someone is going to come in and try to assert themselves in it. Considering the size of playebase, I feel like they’ll be more willing to call that out when it happens.
If it happens, it happens, but I won’t hesitate to remove that presence if that’s what needs to happen.
I don't know what I'm doing. Poke at Seven Nations sevennations.aresmush.com port 2021
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@Testament As you shouldn’t. You don’t need a courtroom case to tell somebody to get off your ship. It’s your damned ship.
A safe environment is crucial. We haven’t really had any big admin issues on Keys in our one year and I pray that it continues to stay that way. The issue I’m struggling with is unfortunately a personal one and probably not solvable with kicking somebody out. Bloody sucks, though.
I like to think that players themselves are invested in a safe environment – that community building also means creating a place where people feel safe approaching staff and each other with problems. Ideally, an argument or conflict gets settled between players themselves without anyone having to call in the admins in the first place.
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@L-B-Heuschkel said in Good things in Mushing:
Unfortunately, though, being thoroughly dislikeable and a constant drain on my patience is not a banishable offence.
Sure it is. Being a negative addition to the game in whatever way is bannable if you want it to be. There are games I don’t play on because a specific person plays there, and I sure think the game would be better for more people if that person was banned.
as previously stated, good day.
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@farfalla said in Good things in Mushing:
@L-B-Heuschkel said in Good things in Mushing:
Unfortunately, though, being thoroughly dislikeable and a constant drain on my patience is not a banishable offence.
Sure it is. Being a negative addition to the game in whatever way is bannable if you want it to be. There are games I don’t play on because a specific person plays there, and I sure think the game would be better for more people if that person was banned.
That’s a fair point. I’m not quite ready to exert that level of leverage – in part probably because this is a personal issue, and we’ve all heard whisper campaigns and gossip about past games where staff dealt unfairly with people because they had a personal stake. We’ll see what happens. After all, life has its bumps and then it goes on.
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@Tez said in Good things in Mushing:
About building our boundaries. ABOUT NOT BEING GIGANTIC SPONGES, @tsar, THIS IS A CALLOUT POST.
Lol I read this moments after I posted to Testament again in the other thread.
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@farfalla said in Good things in Mushing:
There are games I don’t play on because a specific person plays there
Saaaaaame. Even when that person quits her toons, I know she just recreates a new alt (usually with a new Ares handle), so I just stay away. It’s better for everyone that way~
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@KarmaBum I so desperately want to know who and if it’s the same person.
But this is GOOD THINGS.
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@L-B-Heuschkel said in Good things in Mushing:
@farfalla Kind of wish I could go see the place in real life. Chincoteague’s facebook groups have become my daytime TV. People track the ponies, they know their names, their histories. It’s hilarious and adorable.
… In real life, though, I’ve only got my own two ponies. One’s an 1800 pounds jutland draft and the other’s a feral much like the Chincoteague ponies.
THIRD THURSDAY IN JULY - PONY PENNING!!
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People.
Honestly? While we complain about 5% of the playerbase, most MU*ers are pretty cool. Sometimes anxious, yes. But pretty cool. I always enjoy meeting someone new and having a great scene with them.
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@Nynrose said in Good things in Mushing:
THIRD THURSDAY IN JULY - PONY PENNING!!
Riptide and Susie Solé have already been brought over because of Riptide’s hoof abscess but the others will come over that day!
(And yes, we already have an open event scene scheduled because why use a real life town as a setting if we’re not using what makes it special) XD
Also, anyone who thinks Wildfire is a ridiculous name needs to meet Bodacious Bob and his girlfriend, Giggles.
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@WhiteRaven She comes down from Yellow Mountain. On a dark flat land she rides on a pony she named Wildfire with a whirlwind by her side on a cold Nebraska night…
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Being able to step away from a hobby, chill the fuck out, and realize what you liked about it to start with. Being able to step back in after a couple months has been a good thing –
they | them
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@L-B-Heuschkel said in Good things in Mushing:
@Nynrose said in Good things in Mushing:
THIRD THURSDAY IN JULY - PONY PENNING!!
Riptide and Susie Solé have already been brought over because of Riptide’s hoof abscess but the others will come over that day!
(And yes, we already have an open event scene scheduled because why use a real life town as a setting if we’re not using what makes it special) XD
Also, anyone who thinks Wildfire is a ridiculous name needs to meet Bodacious Bob and his girlfriend, Giggles.
I expect it will be live streamed.
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@moth said in Good things in Mushing:
Being able to step away from a hobby, chill the fuck out, and realize what you liked about it to start with.
Being able to step back in after a couple months has been a good thing –
I’m always happy to see you wandering back
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I think I will be eternally grateful for everyone’s patience with me this year. I’m always a flake, but 2022 has been a ride and a half, and almost everyone has been ridiculously accommodating and helpful and understanding. I’ve had a couple of false starts, certain I was ready to start playing again, and…nobody has been mad when it turns out I was wrong. Even better, while people are holding space for me? Nobody is waiting, or letting things get stopped, or missing out on stuff. So I don’t have any GUILT. Or, well. Very little guilt.
the entity previously known as Sunny
