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    hobos
    last edited by 25 May 2022, 14:50

    This morning I tried to send people a few messages to see if I was blocked, because I genuinely did not know. I got a message like this last night when I tried to send a message over discord, and that’s why I used DMs here…

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    I guess this means I am blocked. I thought it only meant what it said. If it means that I am blocked then… a lot of people have blocked me now. I guess that makes things more clear. 😞

    To everyone who blocked me, I’m sorry I caused you enough pain to do that. I no longer think that anyone is going to forgive me, or resolve differences and be friends. If it ever happens I will be happy but I’m not holding out for it anymore. Anyway, just saying sorry.

    This is your circle, and I’m outside of it. Stepping out now…

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      Pavel @hobos
      last edited by Pavel 25 May 2022, 14:52

      @hobos said in Bannings:

      I guess this means I am blocked. I thought it only meant what it said. If it means that I am blocked then… a lot of people have blocked me now.

      You could be blocked, or it could be literally what it said: You need to share a server or be on their friend list to send DMs. Lots of people have that restriction on their accounts to counteract spammers and such.

      ETA: Keep in mind, the refugee discord ‘server’ doesn’t exist anymore (at least as far as I can tell) so you don’t have that server in common anymore.

      He/Him. Opinions and views are solely my own unless specifically stated otherwise.
      BE AN ADULT

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        GF @Pavel
        last edited by 25 May 2022, 15:03

        @Pavel said in Bannings:

        You could be blocked, or it could be literally what it said: You need to share a server or be on their friend list to send DMs. Lots of people have that restriction on their accounts to counteract spammers and such.

        You can turn that restriction off? I thought that was just how Discord works.

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          Testament @hobos
          last edited by 25 May 2022, 15:03

          @hobos Do you…lack any sense of self-awareness? Honest question. Because you just keep pick at an issue you’ve been told, multiple times to leave be. You’ve even said yourself that you were leaving it. Only to come back some 12 hours later again and pick at it again. Are we seeing a pattern here?

          And at the end of every single one of these statements, you’ll make some kind of self-pitying comment of how “I’ll go away now.” As if you’re expecting someone to take that bait.

          You were told, multiple times to stop. And you lacked the common decency to do so. I get that you really want to be this true believer for VK and thar your search for “answers” more and more strikes me as disingenuous. If you want to white knight for her, fine. Thats your hill to die on. But plenty of people somehow, someway, all seem to have very similar experiences. I wonder why that is.

          You need to stop. Seriously.

          I don't know what I'm doing. Poke at Seven Nations sevennations.aresmush.com port 2021

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            MisterBoring @hobos
            last edited by 25 May 2022, 15:08

            @hobos

            Please stop. If you actually care, stop, step away, and come back in a few days or even a week or two. You’re making yourself look bad with each new post.

            Proud Member of the Pro-Mummy Alliance

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              Pavel @GF
              last edited by 25 May 2022, 15:08

              @GF said in Bannings:

              @Pavel said in Bannings:

              You could be blocked, or it could be literally what it said: You need to share a server or be on their friend list to send DMs. Lots of people have that restriction on their accounts to counteract spammers and such.

              You can turn that restriction off? I thought that was just how Discord works.

              … looking at the settings, doesn’t look like it actually. I assumed one could, as with other platforms. I was wrong!

              He/Him. Opinions and views are solely my own unless specifically stated otherwise.
              BE AN ADULT

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                helvetica @kalakh
                last edited by 25 May 2022, 15:09

                @kalakh said in Bannings:

                VK/Hella

                I didn’t know who Hella was. lmaoooooo

                Street Cred

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                  Jennkryst @helvetica
                  last edited by 25 May 2022, 15:11

                  @helvetica said in Bannings:

                  @kalakh said in Bannings:

                  VK/Hella

                  I didn’t know who Hella was. lmaoooooo

                  Yeah, she literally changed her username and started pretending to be a new person right after the banning- spree, and nobody has called her out on it.

                  Mummy Pun? MUMMY PUN!
                  She/her

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                    Snackness @helvetica
                    last edited by 25 May 2022, 15:14

                    @helvetica Perfectly normal thing to do at random for no reason at all and not at all sus af

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                      BloodAngel @hobos
                      last edited by 25 May 2022, 15:16

                      @hobos are you Leaving it be?

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                        GF @Jennkryst
                        last edited by 25 May 2022, 15:16

                        @Jennkryst said in Bannings:

                        Yeah, she literally changed her username and started pretending to be a new person right after the banning- spree, and nobody has called her out on it.

                        She’s not in The Clique, so she’s obviously harmless.

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                          helvetica @Jennkryst
                          last edited by 25 May 2022, 15:17

                          @Jennkryst @Snackness Guess she’s gonna have to do it, again.

                          @hobos It isn’t anyone’s job to make you feel like you’re intentions have been seen as good, here. All you’ve done is pour salt on many people’s wounds. This has been communicated to you very clearly. That is the only indication many of us have of who you are. No amount of laying that guilt at these people’s feet or whining about forgiveness will change that. Altering your behavior will change that.

                          Street Cred

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                            Testament @helvetica
                            last edited by 25 May 2022, 15:18

                            @helvetica said in Bannings:

                            @kalakh said in Bannings:

                            VK/Hella

                            I didn’t know who Hella was. lmaoooooo

                            I’ll use the own snip that somebody else used yesterday.

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                            I don't know what I'm doing. Poke at Seven Nations sevennations.aresmush.com port 2021

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                              IoleRae @hobos
                              last edited by 25 May 2022, 15:28

                              @hobos

                              The rules of this place mean I cannot say to you the things I want to, right now.

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                              Just to confirm for you. I don’t ever want anything to do with you ever, ever again.

                              the entity previously known as Sunny

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                                Meg
                                last edited by 25 May 2022, 15:33

                                Look guys, I’m all for like, calling people out and stuff. But if you’re going to berate him for leaving it be or not on one hand, then we also shouldn’t dogpile on it.

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                                  helvetica @Meg
                                  last edited by helvetica 25 May 2022, 15:34

                                  @Meg I don’t care.

                                  ETA: I remain unconvinced that this individual didn’t come into a group of people still hurting over being ousted from their community in order to bask in that.

                                  Street Cred

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                                    MisterBoring
                                    last edited by 25 May 2022, 15:34

                                    I’m going to second what @Meg said.

                                    It looks like @Pavel took care of the situation as far as BMD is concerned, so now we move on and talk about other things.

                                    Dwelling on it will just burn us out.

                                    Proud Member of the Pro-Mummy Alliance

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                                      Roz @Pavel
                                      last edited by Roz 25 May 2022, 15:35

                                      @Pavel said in Bannings:

                                      @GF said in Bannings:

                                      @Pavel said in Bannings:

                                      You could be blocked, or it could be literally what it said: You need to share a server or be on their friend list to send DMs. Lots of people have that restriction on their accounts to counteract spammers and such.

                                      You can turn that restriction off? I thought that was just how Discord works.

                                      … looking at the settings, doesn’t look like it actually. I assumed one could, as with other platforms. I was wrong!

                                      It’s generally in your settings server by server. You can allow folks from some shared servers to DM you, but not others. But it’ll be in your settings on that particular server, not your general personal settings.

                                      I believe the usual default is that if you’re on a server, others on that server can DM you. But you can turn that off. (Like I turn it off for things like emoji servers where I just want to be there for the emoji and I definitely don’t want DMs from people because those are 100% just spammers and scammers.)

                                      @hobos said in Bannings:

                                      This morning I tried to send people a few messages to see if I was blocked, because I genuinely did not know. I got a message like this last night when I tried to send a message over discord, and that’s why I used DMs here…

                                      81b6a525-e462-4057-87f0-aa52d20dfb02-image.png

                                      I guess this means I am blocked. I thought it only meant what it said. If it means that I am blocked then… a lot of people have blocked me now. I guess that makes things more clear. 😞

                                      That doesn’t mean you’re blocked. It means exactly what it says: you are not Discord friends with that person and you don’t have a shared server in common that the person allows DMs from.

                                      But also: holy shit if you think someone doesn’t want to talk to you, don’t DM them???

                                      ETA: Sorry, I was typing all this as intervening posts came in.

                                      she/her | playlist

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                                        IoleRae @Meg
                                        last edited by IoleRae 25 May 2022, 15:36

                                        @Meg

                                        My reaction to the messaging blocked people is very restrained. I am defending myself directly from harassment. I really want him to leave me alone, and I keep telling him this at EVERY opportunity. I have wanted him to leave me alone since BEFORE this stuff happened. I do not feel like that’s dogpiling.

                                        the entity previously known as Sunny

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                                          Pavel @Roz
                                          last edited by 25 May 2022, 15:37

                                          @Roz said in Bannings:

                                          It’s generally in your settings server by server. You can allow folks from some shared servers to DM you, but not others. But it’ll be in your settings on that particular server, not your general personal settings.

                                          Yeah. There’s a general “allow people on servers I’m on to message me” setting, but there’s no “allow everyone to message me” setting. They have to be your “friend” first.

                                          He/Him. Opinions and views are solely my own unless specifically stated otherwise.
                                          BE AN ADULT

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