Real Life Struggles/Support/Vent
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@junipersky I hate to say it, but even though permanency is super important to kids, the likelihood is that the court will terminate and then the parent will immediately appeal. I dunno about yours but our department typically won’t finalize adoption while appeal is still pending because it is SUCH a mess if lightning strikes and a term is reversed. If they aren’t warning you about this, beware optimism.
I’m sorry you’re going through this – reminds me of a time we had to stop mid term and do a mistrial because a parent testified that they were high on the stand. Had to start over 5 weeks later in front of a different judge. Term trials are very hard to schedule especially in jurisdictions without a lot of court availability. Winceing at that failure to subpoena because I have been in that boat-- sometimes IDK who my witnesses are until my dependency parent shows up with them at the term trial and demands we let them testify. Our AAG used to let them because she knew a witness like that was unlikely to hurt her case against the parent and the failure to offer evidence could give them grounds for that appeal.
I hope I am wrong and your final orders are actually final but it sounds like there’s some obstinacy, so. Fingers crossed for you.
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@Snackness I’m so sorry.
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Y’know, I understand why I am not allowed to request a refill (for meds I’m meant to be on for the rest of my life) until a week or less before I am out, but it almost invariably takes three weeks to get the rx actually filled, what with it having to be re-pre-approved every time and the process for getting it re-pre-approved involves throwing the request away and not telling anybody that they need to sign off on it, while telling me the script will be ready in two days so I have to drive around trying to pick it up and then call my doc’s PA, near tears, and beg her to tell the doc to pre-approve it again without ever being asked to and in spite of it being pre-approved four times a year for the last 16 years.
This is just eugenics, they hope eventually my queer disabled working-poor parasite-class ass will die from this or get so tired and frustrated I kill myself.
But why the hell is it happening to my DOG? I’m paying out of pocket. I’m paying extra for expedited shipping. And I still can’t get four dewormer pills, ffs. Call up my vet, tell them my dog’s shedding tapeworm proglottids, they get me a rush-appointment the very next day, but it’s been three weeks dicking around trying to get somebody to fill the script and I am still waiting for it to get here.
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@Gashlycrumb said in Real Life Struggles/Support/Vent:
But why the hell is it happening to my DOG? I’m paying out of pocket. I’m paying extra for expedited shipping. And I still can’t get four dewormer pills, ffs. Call up my vet, tell them my dog’s shedding tapeworm proglottids, they get me a rush-appointment the very next day, but it’s been three weeks dicking around trying to get somebody to fill the script and I am still waiting for it to get here.
Are you using Wedgewood? We had to use Wedgewood for our senior cat’s methimazole for years and I despised them. The only, only good thing about his passing was thinking I’d never have to deal with them again…
Until our vet had to prescribe compounded antibiotics rather than the regular kind for our dog that’s been struggling with other major health issues since March. It took them over three days to even acknowledge they’d received the prescription from the vet, let alone do anything with it. But hey, it’s cool. It’s not like my dog has an uncontrolled infection or anything while they’re sitting around with their thumbs up their collective ass.
We had better experiences for mail order prescriptions with Covetrus, but I’ll warn you they were also way more expensive.
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@Aria My vet took a day, because they wanted to check that my dog didn’t have any other kinds of worms and they don’t have an in-house lab. (Which surprised me, looking for parasites in dog shit was my job for a while.)
Then they phoned me up telling me I could come pick up the prescription. I thought it would be, you know, some pills. But it was a paper script. I asked where to fill it. They said Costco, or any big pharmacy. I went to a big pharmacy. They said they didn’t have it. I was not surprised, because it’s for tapeworms specifically, and human beings don’t get tapeworms unless they eat an undercooked bear, which isn’t a common thing to do.
So I tried to get it from Chewy, and they said I needed to mail the paper Rx to them. I didn’t want to wait the extra week for this. So I tried another online pet pharmacy, Allipet. Their website said they’d call my vet for approval and mail the pills that or the following day. They even had my vet in a drop-down menu. Looked good. A week later, I’ve still got nothing from them, so I call them up, and they say they called my vet and got no reply. I call my vet, who says Allipet never called them. I cancel Allipet order and have my vet order through the pharmacy that they use. I pay extra for two-day shipping.
Five days later, nothing. Call the vet. They check the shipment. Tomorrow, says the website.
My dog is shedding tapeworm proglottids on my bed. If I die, don’t eat me, I could have swallowed one in my sleep and if that happened I’ll have tapeworm cysts. Kinda nifty. But also, my dog doesn’t feel so great and her butt itches and is getting sore from licking the itch.
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@Gashlycrumb said in Real Life Struggles/Support/Vent:
So I tried to get it from Chewy, and they said I needed to mail the paper Rx to them. I didn’t want to wait the extra week for this.
Ohh, yeah, I’ve had to deal with Chewy Rx before, too. You can mail a script in if it’s not urgent, but they’ll also do the whole ‘enter it online and call your vet’ thing for most prescriptions. We get our dog’s prescription food and immunosuppressants from them, but had to jump through the same hoop of calling them to ask what was up, being told our vet didn’t answer, then having to call the vet and get them to call Chewy even though our vet was the one who said to use them for cyclosporine because it’s so much cheaper. The upside is that once they get what they need, they’re fast. I’ve almost always had them ship out same day or next day and get here within 48 hours from shipment with no extra charge if I was spending more than $50, which our dog’s food and meds are.
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@Aria Yeah. Chewy ships fast enough that I thought it would be quicker to order from them (two days) than to have the human-pharmacy order it for me (two to four days). Then I believed Allipet when they said two days and had an easy web-interface to order, but waited five and found they’d either done nothing and lied about it or contacted my vet via whispering in the keyhole at midnight. Of course, then I believed that spending extra for two-day shipping with the place my vet uses would result in the pills arriving in three days or less.
I should have just handed the paper script back to the receptionist at the clinic and said, “Please order this for me, have it delivered to the clinic and call me when it’s here,” which is what we would have done bog-standard when I worked for a vet. But I try not to be that old guy, even though I am that old guy.
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@Gashlycrumb “If I die, don’t eat me.” ~ Gashlycrumb, 2025
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Finally! My dog has taken two pills!
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Our house got struck by lightning and it bricked the modem, a work computer, and the PlayStation.
“Did you have a surge protector?”
Yes all of it was, unfortunately it was against the power of Zeus.Ask me about professional wrestling.
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@Dreampipe nooooo Zeus why
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@Dreampipe said in Real Life Struggles/Support/Vent:
“Did you have a surge protector?”
You should’ve got a Lieutenant Surge protector.
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@Dreampipe How old was the surge protector? I lost some things to a surge that were plugged into a surge protector, looked into it, and found out that the damned things have a lifespan of 3-5 years. After that, it’s just a fancy extension cord.
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@Ominous I’m not entirely sure but I’d guess maybe 2-3 years? Interestingly not everything plugged into it got fried. The PS5’s innards were destroyed but the TV and everything else hooked into it survived. All of our CO2 alarms went off at once too but I’m pretty sure they’re alright.
I mean either way if I had to bet on a plug or 1.21 gigawatts, the odds are not in our favor.
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@Dreampipe I think at that level of intensity you’d be relying entirely on circuit breakers to force the energy to ground – but even then, it’s lightning, so if it wants to run roughshod over your expensive shit it’s just going to do what it wants. Zeus famously doesn’t care much about consent.
