But, damn, puriteens make me uncomfy. There has to be a space between the gross and the sanitized.
I don’t think the space between gross and sanitized is “coded SA systems” or SA-content at all.
There are important stories to be told here. This is not the medium to tell them. There is plenty of space for fetish content and TS and everything in between that you can find in mushes, but there is a degree of care, empathy, and respect that needs to be brought to stories of SA that I do not trust can ever safely occur in a mush setting.