I can only speak for myself and a select few like-minded players, but here’s my perspective on this topic: While I genuinely enjoy private roleplay and developing personal storylines with my RP partners, I’m certainly not opposed to staff-run plots. They add depth and context to the world we’re playing in—I just don’t require them as my primary source of enjoyment.
Being a storyteller and plot-runner is undoubtedly a thankless job, which is why I try to make staff members’ lives easier when possible. My expectations are actually quite modest: run perhaps one scene a week to keep the world moving forward, and I’m perfectly content! I’ll happily fill in the other days with my own character-driven stories alongside my RP partners.
In my experience, most active and engaged players share this mindset. What I’ve consistently observed over years of roleplaying is that the very people who complain “there’s nothing to do” on a game are typically the same ones who rarely attend planned scenes when they are offered. They’re waiting for entertainment rather than creating it.
I believe there’s a productive middle ground here. Setting reasonable guidelines for sandbox RP so players don’t inadvertently break ongoing plots seems entirely fair. This doesn’t have to be an either/or situation. If you provide people with the tools and framework to tell their own stories—including clear boundaries about what limits they must respect—I strongly believe those same players will show up for staff-run scenes as well, appreciating the broader context they provide.
The most successful RP environments I’ve experienced have this balance: staff who create a vibrant, evolving world with occasional significant events, and players who feel empowered to develop their own stories within that framework. Neither needs to exclude the other, and both contribute to a richer overall experience.