Macha Awareness (And Unappreciation) thread

GF

@KarmaBum if i trust anyone to unfailingly diagnose problematic behavior its derp

Testament

Wow, I just read the thread on MSB, because unlike Macha I don’t call it the ‘other Forum’ because I’m not a gigantic coward.

She is coping and seething hard and of course Hella(read VulgarKitten, another winner of the human race)would jump at the opportunity to get the chance to encourage their victim complexes together.

I mean did anyone actually expect anything else? Other than Ghost and Derp patting them on the heads and saying how it wasn’t actually ‘that bad’ and how terrible they’re being treated by big bad BND.

BloodAngel

@GF Oh that fuck face is around now. At Derp, not at you of course,

hiss

(Edited: To be clear.)

Third Eye

Jesus, part of me used to be kind of pleased when Ghost showed his ass in a ‘vindication of long-held opinion’ kind of way, but now it’s just gross and depressing.

GF

@BloodAngel I really wish I hadn’t read that thread. Derp’s behavior falls within my threshold of being able to respond to it with detached albeit bitter irony; but Ghost has made me so mad I can’t even be sarcastic. I’d say “kiss my ass” but that would make my ass feel dirty.

BloodAngel

@GF I have had a run-in with derp is all. But, I don’t like to air stuff. I want to belive in the best, even if it makes me an idiot.

GF

@BloodAngel Oh, me too. It’s just been long enough I’m over it. Having nothing to do with him since the forum divorce helps, though.

Cobalt

@Roz I wanted to. But I try to keep my promises and I promised people until the end of the month.

CuriousGamer

I do believe that Hella got her link wrong in this post

It should actually be this link: https://play.arxgame.org/comms/boards/19511/view/1459976

I’ll fix it - Things have a way of coming to light for creepy creepers.

And she talks from experience after being outed as a creepy creeper.

And look at Bessarion with the Macha smackdown over there.

Roz

@CuriousGamer Shockingly, it is possible for multiple people to behave badly at the same time! Who knew. Two people behaved badly, and two people ended up banned from a game.

Might be more apt for this thread, though.

Meg

Yeah, the thing that these people don’t seem to understand is that it doesn’t matter who you are doing it to, but what you are doing.

It is actually pretty regularly occurring that people will be particularly toxic to people that are already toxic themselves, or ill-liked in the community for their own behaviors, etc.

Herja

@Meg said in Macha Awareness (And Unappreciation) thread:

Yeah, the thing that these people don’t seem to understand is that it doesn’t matter who you are doing it to, but what you are doing.

I think it’s pretty telling when people make this assumption that only ‘perfect’ people can be victims. Being a victim doesn’t mean you cannot be an abuser. Being an abuser doesn’t mean you can’t be a victim.

Cobalt

Idk if anyone on here has contact with Isaac player, but could someone let them know my discord is not working and I am not at home to try and communicate through my laptop.

bear_necessities

@Cobalt Would highly recommend you go here: https://brandmuday.mythicus.net/topic/344/ruiz-thread/16

Because that’s who you are dealing with. I would probably stop dealing with them.

junipersky

@Herja

Right?

Problematic behavior can target other people who have their own problematic behaviors.

Cobalt

@bear_necessities oh! Is that what they are blowing up my discord about? I wasn’t planning on getting back on forums today but I was getting my discord blown up but my messages in response wouldn’t go through and I was so confused because they are asking me to set record straights and I’m like ??? No one is saying anything about you on MSB? They’re busy saying I over reacted and wanted to have Isaac all to my own character.

bear_necessities

@Cobalt Yes this is Ruiz’s MO. “Set the record straight” in that they want you to defend them and be their flying monkey.

Also Hi Ruiz

Coin

@Cobalt said in Macha Awareness (And Unappreciation) thread:

@bear_necessities oh! Is that what they are blowing up my discord about? I wasn’t planning on getting back on forums today but I was getting my discord blown up but my messages in response wouldn’t go through and I was so confused because they are asking me to set record straights and I’m like ??? No one is saying anything about you on MSB? They’re busy saying I over reacted and wanted to have Isaac all to my own character.

That kind of crazy “set the record straight” demands are very much up their alley, too, because they know that if they come to defend themselves they’ll have to confront other people they’ve done fucked up shit to.

shit-piss-love

lol set the record straight to the five people that still use MSB

CuriousGamer

@Cobalt You get a ban! And you get a ban! And you, and you, and you!

Don’t feel like you have to do anything. On MSB there’s some random-ass theory that you wanted Isaack’s player and that’s why you banned Macha. It’s some pretty wild and stupid stuff.

You made a choice. And honestly, it’s the right choice. Because you made it, it was the right choice for you.

There’s a difference in doing something bad or dumb, and taking ownership of it. Then there’s it’s not my fault! Macha is in the refusal of ownership crowd, and apparently so is Hella/Monique. They were persecuted. They don’t take personal responsibility.

You don’t owe anyone anything. Nor anyone explanations. It’s all just random spin-city on MSB.

You came to the community about sharing a bad actor for the community. Thank you for that.