What Is Your Preferred Play Style?

[shit-piss-love]

@Faraday said in What Is Your Preferred Play Style?:

If you’re worried that people are having some kind of bad feelings (FOMO, resentment, whatever) over people RPing in private without them, I don’t really think that’s a problem that code can solve. They’ll still feel left out if they see people posting RP and they can’t find any.

We’ve had a bunch of people in this thread or another recently including myself express that the Ares format of showing all the private scenes does in fact hit different. For some of us it definitely gives the impression that the game is going to be impenetrable and that reduces excitement, and also a look at the “last pose” stats for those scenes conveys the impression that the game is full of dead scenes. Regardless of how people might think people should be reacting to this, the brain works the way it works.

Also, since I have not been able to get into Ares much (for the reason cited) I am not sure if there is a way to make your scene actually private, like not show up in the list at all. It feels super icky to me that that everyone can see who everyone is in private scenes with. That just seems like a risky move in a hobby that is already full of “What were you doing in private with THEM?!”.

[Faraday]

@shit-piss-love said in What Is Your Preferred Play Style?:

We’ve had a bunch of people in this thread or another recently including myself express that the Ares format of showing all the private scenes does in fact hit different.

Private RP has always shown up on the +where list of every game I’ve ever been on, Penn/Tiny/Ares, and it’s always engendered that same reaction.

I am not sure if there is a way to make your scene actually private, like not show up in the list at all.

You can set yourself hidden, which means your name won’t show up in the public scene list.

[KarmaBum]

@shit-piss-love I don’t know how to put this nicely so I hope this doesn’t seem pricky 'cause it really seems like… just don’t type scenes / visit the scenes-live page if it’s bothering you that much.

You can also use CSS to hide the “last activity” column on the page -

.live-scenes-block .col-sm-3 {
    display: none;
}

[Faraday]

@KarmaBum Also, scenes/open in-game will only show the open scenes. The scenes page on the portal puts the private ones you’re not a part of at the bottom of the list. FWIW, I did once look into making them collapsible as @Third-Eye suggested, but it’s just problematic because it’s all one big table currently.

[junipersky]

@shit-piss-love

This is 100% accurate for me.

[Third Eye]

@shit-piss-love said in What Is Your Preferred Play Style?:

“What were you doing in private with THEM?!”.

Whether this is an impulse that should actually be maneuvered around or indulged is always where I get stuck because this stuff bottoms out with me pretty quickly, whether it’s via WHO list/where checks or just watching scenes. But, again, whole other things.

[Scissors]

@Faraday My feeling on this is exactly like yours.

Unfortunately Async seems to be increasingly becoming the norm, or at least I’m noticing it more in my latest round of dipping-my-toes-into-Mushing-again. And frankly, it’s burning me out a lot faster.

[tsar]

@shit-piss-love said in What Is Your Preferred Play Style?:

That just seems like a risky move in a hobby that is already full of “What were you doing in private with THEM?!”.

if anyone pages me that I’m sending them explicit TS poses, you’ve all been warned

[Jumpscare]

@Faraday said in What Is Your Preferred Play Style?:

@KarmaBum Also, scenes/open in-game will only show the open scenes. The scenes page on the portal puts the private ones you’re not a part of at the bottom of the list. FWIW, I did once look into making them collapsible as @Third-Eye suggested, but it’s just problematic because it’s all one big table currently.

Random thought, but could Ares benefit from a hybrid of Private & Open scenes? One where people can watch the RP as it’s happening, but it’s closed for additional characters entering the scene. You could call it “Full” or something like that.

There’d still be the obstacle of normalizing players of using Full instead of Private, but I feel like it’d help with the penetrability of the game if people could get an eye of what’s happening right now.

[Faraday]

@Jumpscare said in What Is Your Preferred Play Style?:

Random thought, but could Ares benefit from a hybrid of Private & Open scenes?

You can use scene notes for this, though it’s mainly used for scenes where it’s open but only for particular characters meeting certain criteria. Per the help file:

Used for open scenes where participation is limited (by quantity, character type, etc.) or other special considerations apply.

But honestly, what people are doing in their private scenes is none of anyone’s business. At the risk of being harsh, I’m disinclined to create coded solutions for people who can’t handle that.

[Third Eye]

@Jumpscare said in What Is Your Preferred Play Style?:

Random thought, but could Ares benefit from a hybrid of Private & Open scenes? One where people can watch the RP as it’s happening, but it’s closed for additional characters entering the scene. You could call it “Full” or something like that.

Spirit Lake had ‘Watchable’ scenes for a while, which was a tag people could use to make closed scenes viewable to voyeurs. It was a lot of fun, honestly, but the code broke after like every update so I don’t think it felt worth maintaining.

[KarmaBum]

@tsar said in What Is Your Preferred Play Style?:

if anyone pages me that I’m sending them explicit TS poses, you’ve all been warned

like… personalized right then on the spot or do you have a dispenser…? 'cause i know where to find you and got a week off coming up soon

[tsar]

@KarmaBum said in What Is Your Preferred Play Style?:

@tsar said in What Is Your Preferred Play Style?:

if anyone pages me that I’m sending them explicit TS poses, you’ve all been warned

like… personalized right then on the spot or do you have a dispenser…? 'cause i know where to find you and got a week off coming up soon

lol what are you planning on coming to my house and having me recite TS out loud

[KarmaBum]

@tsar omg i meant what game to find you on. but WAY TO MAKE IT EVEN WEIRDER

[tsar]

@KarmaBum said in What Is Your Preferred Play Style?:

@tsar omg i meant what game to find you on. but WAY TO MAKE IT EVEN WEIRDER

YOU OPENED THIS DOOR YOU SAID YOU KNOW WHERE TO FIND ME AND YOU DO

AND WHY WOULD YOU NEED A WHOLE WEEK UNLESS TRAVELING

[KarmaBum]

@tsar said in What Is Your Preferred Play Style?:

WHY WOULD YOU NEED A WHOLE WEEK

to test your commitment

[Pavel]

@tsar said in What Is Your Preferred Play Style?:

@KarmaBum said in What Is Your Preferred Play Style?:

@tsar said in What Is Your Preferred Play Style?:

if anyone pages me that I’m sending them explicit TS poses, you’ve all been warned

like… personalized right then on the spot or do you have a dispenser…? 'cause i know where to find you and got a week off coming up soon

lol what are you planning on coming to my house and having me recite TS out loud

Either beat poetry or Shakespeare style, please.

[bear_necessities]

@tsar said in What Is Your Preferred Play Style?:

@shit-piss-love said in What Is Your Preferred Play Style?:

That just seems like a risky move in a hobby that is already full of “What were you doing in private with THEM?!”.

if anyone pages me that I’m sending them explicit TS poses, you’ve all been warned

I just want everyone here to know that I asked this of @tsar and I didn’t even get a PG-13 TS pose let alone an explicit one so I DEMAND JUSTICE.

BAIT
AND
SWITCH

[Jumpscare]

@Faraday said in What Is Your Preferred Play Style?:

But honestly, what people are doing in their private scenes is none of anyone’s business.

Maybe I’m in the minority, but I don’t like being in private scenes. I’d much rather be in watchable scenes, for many reasons… I don’t like adding to the curtain of private scenes, it gives other players something to read during their downtime, and if it’s going to be shared in the end anyway I have no problem with people reading it before it’s done.

I’m not saying that other players shouldn’t be entitled to their privacy, although I can see how my previous post came off like that. My mistake. I was intending to refer to people like me who prefer being in watchable scenes.

Or maybe I’m the only one who likes that. I don’t know.

[Faraday]

@Jumpscare said in What Is Your Preferred Play Style?:

Or maybe I’m the only one who likes that. I don’t know.

Oh I’m sure you’re not. My comment about “none of their business” was just in general, not meant to be directed at you. Sorry if that was unclear.

Personally I always found the “+watch” code from days of yore intensely uncomfortable. Not because I was doing anything truly private (I post most of my scenes anyway), but just because it bothers me feeling like I have someone looking over my shoulder. I turn off my “X players watching you” indicator in video games for similar reasons So I’m not going to code anything like that for Ares, but like I mentioned, scene notes should cover the basic need.