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    • farfallaF
      farfalla @Aria
      last edited by

      @Aria Thank you for sharing! I think a lot of us are more than willing to try 🙂

      as previously stated, good day.

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      • AriaA
        Aria
        last edited by

        Flutter

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        • RozR
          Roz
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          Even if I want to yell at someone about how they’re being a total shitty asshole, I want to yell at them with the right pronouns.

          she/her | playlist

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          • MourneM
            Mourne @Roz
            last edited by Mourne

            @Roz said in Bannings:

            Even if I want to yell at someone about how they’re being a total shitty asshole, I want to yell at them with the right pronouns.

            Cuz that just makes it /better/, they absolutely /know/ that you’re yelling and being angry with /them/ and not just some nebulous pronouns 😉

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            • AriaA
              Aria @Roz
              last edited by

              @Roz said in Bannings:

              Even if I want to yell at someone about how they’re being a total shitty asshole, I want to yell at them with the right pronouns.

              I laughed way harder at this than I should have.

              See, everyone? @Roz has it.

              “They’re being a totally shitty asshole.”
              “I want to yell at them.”
              “Ugh, Aria. They’re the fucking wooooorst.”

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              • RenR
                Ren
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                There isn’t some sort of nodebb plugin that’d let people add pronouns somewhere handy, is there? Maybe to the little hover tooltip over avatars, or at least an entry in the profile form? Could be nice.

                They/Them

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                • PavelP
                  Pavel @Ren
                  last edited by Pavel

                  @Ren said in Bannings:

                  There isn’t some sort of nodebb plugin that’d let people add pronouns somewhere handy, is there? Maybe to the little hover tooltip over avatars, or at least an entry in the profile form? Could be nice.

                  You can put it in your signature. (Because no, there isn’t any that I can find. There were a few, and they haven’t been updated in eons.)

                  He/Him. Opinions and views are solely my own unless specifically stated otherwise.
                  BE AN ADULT

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                  • JennkrystJ
                    Jennkryst @Pavel
                    last edited by

                    @Pavel Gotta add to mine, and everyone should also maybe link to the top of their ‘where to find me/join in my crimes against MUSHdom’ thread, if they have one.

                    Or don’t I’m not your mom. At least, not yet.

                    Mummy Pun? MUMMY PUN!
                    She/her

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                    • juniperskyJ
                      junipersky Administrators @Jennkryst
                      last edited by

                      @Jennkryst

                      You're not my mom

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                      • JennkrystJ
                        Jennkryst @junipersky
                        last edited by

                        @junipersky I might be

                        Mummy Pun? MUMMY PUN!
                        She/her

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                        • G
                          GF
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                          alt text

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                          • AriaA
                            Aria @GF
                            last edited by

                            @GF Yes. That’s pretty much it. Though being plus-sized, which also comes with BREASTS*, I’m also keenly aware that I will never quite be able to figure out if I’m not entirely comfortable identifying as female because I’m not female or because I’m just bad at performing it “properly”.

                            Regardless of the changes I make to my appearance, people will continue to perceive me as distinctly female, just either with the additional labels of “butch”, “dyke”, “unprofessional”, “lazy”, or “physically ill today”, all of which I’ve received at varying times when having short hair, wearing men’s clothes, or not wearing makeup.

                            I don’t know the answer to my own question, and won’t ever be able to find out, because I’m also not the right size or shape to do “ambiguously queer” properly, either.

                            *Watch the video. It’s hilarious.

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                            • PavelP
                              Pavel @Aria
                              last edited by

                              @Aria said in Bannings:

                              *Watch the video. It’s hilarious.

                              This video is not available for my orientation.

                              Or location, I kinda stopped reading a few words in.

                              He/Him. Opinions and views are solely my own unless specifically stated otherwise.
                              BE AN ADULT

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                              • AriaA
                                Aria @Pavel
                                last edited by

                                @Pavel It’s an SNL sketch called “Lingerie Store” and is a wildly accurate and wildly entertaining portrayal of what trying to buy a bra is like when you practically need industrial equipment to carry 'em around.

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                                • TezT
                                  Tez Administrators @Ren
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                                  @Ren said in Bannings:

                                  There isn’t some sort of nodebb plugin that’d let people add pronouns somewhere handy, is there? Maybe to the little hover tooltip over avatars, or at least an entry in the profile form? Could be nice.

                                  It WOULD have been nice.

                                  iron man i think i did

                                  I tried.

                                  she/they

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                                  • NarsonN
                                    Narson
                                    last edited by Narson

                                    As the old ‘Those who are not welcome were those engaging in personal attacks’ line has been trotted out again, let’s actually look at what happened.

                                    So. The bannings started after Gany’s post of 7:31pm on the 5th of May.

                                    The first people to post was Karmabum stating they were not breaking any rules, and Gany should go back to pretending this isn’t happening. Result? Ban

                                    Second is Snackness saying Karmabum was accurate and that she isn’t sorry for posting, as she isn’t in secondary school. Result? Ban

                                    Tsar says it is obvious Gany doesn’t want convo, so why not lock the thread rather than ban people, critiqued Gany’s tone and suggested she step. away. Result? Ban

                                    Arkandel posts mild criticism of Derp’s ability to admit he is wrong, and asked for clarification on points. Result? Not banned.

                                    Meg posts that people didn’t deserve this, and begs Gany to unban and lock thread. Result? Ban. Later reversed.

                                    Third-Eyed Crow suggests Anglo Saxon fornication to Gany. Result? Banned (Note: The first real “personal attack”)

                                    Narson, the evil dipshit, states they are confused on why Arkandel isn’t banned for the fourth post after no talking. Result? Banned.

                                    Sahin asks ‘Why?’ and posts a cat GIF. Result? Warning to ‘Don’t. Just Don’t’.

                                    Arkandel posts asking what did he do in response to Narson. Result? Gany offers to PM with him.

                                    Gany posts to Sahin and Arkandel.

                                    Ifrit posts critiques Gany’s ‘Emotionless Cat Lawyer Boy’ persona, and suggests she has destroyed 10 years of community by not just stepping back, he then says goodbye. Result? Banned

                                    Bear_Necessities repeats Third-Eyed Crow’s offer. Result? Nothing at this point (Note: Arguably the second real “Personal attack”)

                                    Flyrannosaurus posts a gif of an M60 firing out of a helicopter. Resault? Nothing

                                    Bear states they weren’t silenced and for Gany to stop and reverse bans. Result? Banned

                                    Sahin says they won’t stop and asks for ban. Result? Banned.

                                    DeletedUser posts gif of mass slapping. Result? Nothing

                                    Herja points out the hypocrisy in this action compared to Derp situation, and states Gany looks like a clown. Result? Ban

                                    Prism states that they’d rather be banned than hang around with who is left. Result? Banned

                                    Scar states Gany is unhinged. Result? Banned but then reversed.

                                    Coin states ‘message received’. Result? Banned but reversed without comment and removed from even original banned list.

                                    Groth asks if this is how it ends. Result? Nothing

                                    Hellfrog posts a GIF asking what in tarnation. Result? Nothing

                                    Selira says Gany has killed the board. Result? Nothing

                                    Ghost posts a question mark, then says the baord is getting better from bannings in a second post. After a while he posts two more times, after another Gany ask to stop posting. Result? Finally banned. Then reversed.

                                    3543thrh67 posts that Gany is surprised. Result? Nothing

                                    Cobalt posts asking Gany to take a cool off. Result? Gany states she won’t ban Cobalt for it.

                                    ILuvGrumpyCat posts pointing out Ghost’s problematic history, and also addresses their disappointment in Gany’s choices. States she can go ahead and ban them. Result? Banned

                                    OldFrightful says just lock the thread. Result? Nothing

                                    Roz posts that Gany has degraded her authority, and cross links to the Macha/Farfalla logs. Result? Banned

                                    Now. When it comes to personal attacks, the more clear are Scar, Third-Eyed and Bear-Necessities. Of those, Scar’s ban is reversed and Bear has to post a second time in order to get banned. The challenge to authority, the questioning of it, rather than the personal attack is what gets the ban. And I’d argue that is the more obvious common denominator there. And in terms of whether bans got reversed, several of those who were banned (Like Coin), Gany stated her own feelings that these were the hard ones. So friendship matters more in not being excluded (kinda…well…what’s the term? Clique behaviour?).

                                    So no, those that are unwelcome on MSB aren’t those who engaged in personal attacks. It is those that asked questions of an admin who admits their behaviour could be reasonably described as unhinged (hence the reversal of Scar’s ban for the unhinged personal attack). Several of those who did engage in personal attacks or expressed glee at the bannings etc didn’t even get a warning. Again, suggesting that standards were relaxed for those supporting the admin position even if their behaviour mirrored or was worse than those being banned.

                                    When someone shows you who they are, over and over again? Believe them.

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                                    • PavelP
                                      Pavel
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                                      How I, a man famous for being willing to throwdown with anyone regardless of how much evidence my opinion has behind it, managed to not post in that shitstorm at all is beyond me.

                                      He/Him. Opinions and views are solely my own unless specifically stated otherwise.
                                      BE AN ADULT

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                                      • AposA
                                        Apos
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                                        I do not believe that those left involved at MSB are capable of running a successful online forum about text based role playing games. Whether you think that bar is high or hilariously low, they don’t cross it.

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                                        • PavelP
                                          Pavel @Apos
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                                          @Apos As with MUs, success is dependent on those judging. Even if nobody posts ever again, they will claim it is successful.

                                          He/Him. Opinions and views are solely my own unless specifically stated otherwise.
                                          BE AN ADULT

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                                          • AposA
                                            Apos @Pavel
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                                            @Pavel yeah but they’ll know better themselves, they just won’t admit it out loud

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