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    Testament @BloodAngel
    last edited by 20 May 2022, 21:01

    @BloodAngel I think one of the hardest things you do is admit that you were wrong, and take accountability in what your were wrong about.

    I don’t believe there is, or should be, shame in that. And when that does happen, I don’t think people should get drug for it.

    I don't know what I'm doing. Poke at Seven Nations sevennations.aresmush.com port 2021

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      Jennkryst @kalakh
      last edited by 20 May 2022, 21:04

      @kalakh said in Bannings:

      The new argument that this is merely the result of wanting more moderation and people are just mad that they are being moderated (because they’re super hypocrites and are now getting theirs), sure is a take.

      People wanted moderation to fork threads or move them to different boards, and to ban the rapists or that one guy who sprouts up every couple months and tries to set everything on fire. So technically yes, more moderation was wanted.

      But it is an extremely bad faith reading that the logical conclusion is ‘ban everyone who dares to speak out’. Pretty against the spirit of the job that was asked to be done, you might say.

      Mummy Pun? MUMMY PUN!
      She/her

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        BloodAngel @Testament
        last edited by 20 May 2022, 21:09

        @Testament @kalakh Indeed. But, this too shall pass.

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          Testament @BloodAngel
          last edited by 20 May 2022, 21:11

          @BloodAngel said in Bannings:

          @Testament @kalakh Indeed. But, this too shall pass.

          True.

          But it often feels like an eternity for it to pass.

          I don't know what I'm doing. Poke at Seven Nations sevennations.aresmush.com port 2021

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            BloodAngel @Testament
            last edited by 20 May 2022, 21:12

            @Testament It does indeed. Why I stay in this community rping has helped me through some very bad spots over the years.

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              Roz @Jennkryst
              last edited by 20 May 2022, 21:33

              @Jennkryst said in Bannings:

              @kalakh said in Bannings:

              The new argument that this is merely the result of wanting more moderation and people are just mad that they are being moderated (because they’re super hypocrites and are now getting theirs), sure is a take.

              People wanted moderation to fork threads or move them to different boards, and to ban the rapists or that one guy who sprouts up every couple months and tries to set everything on fire. So technically yes, more moderation was wanted.

              But it is an extremely bad faith reading that the logical conclusion is ‘ban everyone who dares to speak out’. Pretty against the spirit of the job that was asked to be done, you might say.

              And, you know, I don’t think anyone disagrees that someone who is actually harassing someone in DMs doesn’t deserve moderation. The point was that someone going “what are you even talking about, okay fine, message received, bye” and then blocking the other person isn’t engaging in harassment, even if there are multiple sentences in their last message. People got mad because it was actually an abuse of authority – and, ironically, directly contrary to their newly stated goals of following the spirit of the law rather than the letter. And the comparison to Ortallus, someone who flung around verbal abuse to multiple women on the board, is so fucking insulting.

              she/her | playlist

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                kalakh @Roz
                last edited by 20 May 2022, 21:58

                @Roz said in Bannings:

                @Jennkryst said in Bannings:

                @kalakh said in Bannings:

                The new argument that this is merely the result of wanting more moderation and people are just mad that they are being moderated (because they’re super hypocrites and are now getting theirs), sure is a take.

                People wanted moderation to fork threads or move them to different boards, and to ban the rapists or that one guy who sprouts up every couple months and tries to set everything on fire. So technically yes, more moderation was wanted.

                But it is an extremely bad faith reading that the logical conclusion is ‘ban everyone who dares to speak out’. Pretty against the spirit of the job that was asked to be done, you might say.

                And, you know, I don’t think anyone disagrees that someone who is actually harassing someone in DMs doesn’t deserve moderation. The point was that someone going “what are you even talking about, okay fine, message received, bye” and then blocking the other person isn’t engaging in harassment, even if there are multiple sentences in their last message. People got mad because it was actually an abuse of authority – and, ironically, directly contrary to their newly stated goals of following the spirit of the law rather than the letter. And the comparison to Ortallus, someone who flung around verbal abuse to multiple women on the board, is so fucking insulting.

                Ah, but you see, wanting specific and measured enforcement means you want all the enforcement and by anyone elevated to the position and every decision is clearly what you were after, bing bong so simple.

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                  hellfrog @IoleRae
                  last edited by 20 May 2022, 22:33

                  @IoleRae said in Bannings:

                  @kalakh

                  The lengths people go to to avoid saying the words “I’m sorry” makes it feel like they’re worried saying the words is going to make them melt (like the wicked witch and the bucket of water). It shouldn’t surprise me.

                  and yet it always does

                  I don’t get it, man. I don’t actually think it’s that hard to take responsibility and apologize.

                  fr fr
                  (she/her)

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                    Jennkryst @tsar
                    last edited by 21 May 2022, 00:42

                    @tsar said in Bannings:

                    Thank you @Meg for giving me the second ban of my life.

                    Yet I am sure you did not get your personalized ban message, either! There is only one solution: we must all be un-banned, given our message, and then banned promptly after we inform her that the Message [has been] Received.

                    Mummy Pun? MUMMY PUN!
                    She/her

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                      Pavel
                      last edited by 21 May 2022, 03:42

                      I believe the banning messages are saved in a log file. But I’m not sure if that’s saved locally for Meg or is stored somewhere else.

                      He/Him. Opinions and views are solely my own unless specifically stated otherwise.
                      BE AN ADULT

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                        Roz
                        last edited by 23 May 2022, 16:36

                        Congrats to the lucky winners of the unban lottery!

                        Honestly: really fucking wild.

                        she/her | playlist

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                          BloodAngel @Roz
                          last edited by 23 May 2022, 16:38

                          @Roz I am the law

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                            tsar
                            last edited by 23 May 2022, 16:41

                            All I could do was laugh at seeing that my ban was permenant. I’ve never been banned anywhere in 20 years of MUing. I never even had a “serious” conversation about my behavior. No warnings. I’m as interesting or scandalous as toasted white bread with nothing on it.

                            But I’m banned for asking why Gany didn’t just lock some threads or step away. Makes sense.

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                              BloodAngel @tsar
                              last edited by 23 May 2022, 16:42

                              @tsar sinner

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                                helvetica
                                last edited by 23 May 2022, 16:49

                                veronica mars middle finger

                                I have no intention of retracing my steps.

                                Street Cred

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                                  BloodAngel @helvetica
                                  last edited by BloodAngel 23 May 2022, 16:49

                                  @helvetica I might be joining the ban crew. Posted oh havens me a slow clap. How rude.

                                  This whole thing is beyond dumb.

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                                    sao
                                    last edited by 23 May 2022, 16:50

                                    It’s completely arbitrary.

                                    let it be a challenge to you

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                                      KarmaBum
                                      last edited by 23 May 2022, 16:50

                                      At least still being banned prevents me from going back there for the sole purpose of pointing out that Ganymede is a coward who lacks the courage to stand by her own convictions.

                                      Also that Derp is a misogynist prick who lacks the self-awareness to realize he’s the problem, not all of us.

                                      (hi derp & gany & whoever else is lurking. when you get bored of echo-chambering with the four people that agree with you, you know where to find us.)

                                      On Dragon Wings · https://pern.gaslightswitch.com · pern.gaslightswitch.com port 4201

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                                        helvetica @sao
                                        last edited by 23 May 2022, 16:50

                                        @sao said in Bannings:

                                        It’s completely arbitrary.

                                        To quote a scholar: Unhinged.

                                        Street Cred

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                                          Narson
                                          last edited by 23 May 2022, 16:51

                                          The haphazard and bizzare approach kind of confirms everything I’ve been thinking about Gany and Derp. I look forward to them repeating their new official truths and whatever nonsense they claim is ethics into their echo chamber. And well, echoes always work better in empty spaces I guess.

                                          When someone shows you who they are, over and over again? Believe them.

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