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    Testament @Pavel
    last edited by 15 Jun 2022, 19:00

    @Pavel said in MU Peeves Thread:

    Leave my name out of your mouth and out of your mind - unless you’re dealing with things officially. Don’t gossip about me, but do report my behaviour if you feel the need.

    This is the part that I think a lot instances have created my outlook on this. Leave my name out of your damn mouth.

    If someone wants to hate me for whatever arbitrary(legitimate or not) reason that I may never know or understand, that’s perfectly fine. I don’t have to understand.

    But do it honestly.

    I don't know what I'm doing. Poke at Seven Nations sevennations.aresmush.com port 2021

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      IoleRae
      last edited by 15 Jun 2022, 20:00

      Something else to throw into the consideration mix, as someone who absolutely has drawn lines and gone to my own corner, is that in some cases this is the only route available (that a traumatized person can see) to actually retain the relationship long term.

      Sometimes you need a break from a person so that you can calm down, reorient, and then re-engage from a place of compassion and understanding, rather than reaction. Sometimes the only decent thing that’s possible even knowing this is what’s going on is a strangled, ‘please leave me alone’.

      I have had at least two of my ‘do not engage with this person’ requests respected that turned into calming down long term and being able to come back to the table and at least behave in civil fashion.

      It’s a tool. It’s a tool that absolutely gets misused and can often be problematic, but unfortunately, the only way to guarantee that the people who actually NEED it actually get it is to ensure that everyone gets it, because making a traumatized person justify themselves is actively damaging.

      Thus, this is one of those cases where you just have to assume positive intent, and then come down like the hammer of god on anybody who abuses it (baiting somebody who has a no contact request against you, for example).

      the entity previously known as Sunny

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        Solstice @IoleRae
        last edited by 15 Jun 2022, 20:22

        @IoleRae said in MU Peeves Thread:

        Thus, this is one of those cases where you just have to assume positive intent, and then come down like the hammer of god on anybody who abuses it (baiting somebody who has a no contact request against you, for example).

        bartok kick

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          tsar
          last edited by 28 Jun 2022, 15:56

          I can’t decide if this is a peeve or not but there’s someone in r/muds who posts about wanting to be a cannibal on a game to feel part of the game and doesn’t care if it’s the game’s lore or not but can someone point him to a game where it’s allowed???

          Ahhhhhhhhh
          Hhhhhhhh
          Aaahhhh

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            helvetica @tsar
            last edited by 28 Jun 2022, 16:01

            @tsar y’all need to learn how to let a man eat

            Street Cred

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              BloodAngel @tsar
              last edited by 28 Jun 2022, 16:27

              @tsar hannibal

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                crawfish @helvetica
                last edited by 28 Jun 2022, 17:10

                @helvetica hey. women eat too, ok?

                I draw things! http://www.mahaldoodles.com

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                  Solstice @crawfish
                  last edited by 28 Jun 2022, 17:56

                  @crawfish

                  santa clarita

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                    Herja
                    last edited by 28 Jun 2022, 19:58

                    Yall need Jesus

                    lol lmao

                    It's me, hi, I'm the problem it's me

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                      Narson
                      last edited by 28 Jun 2022, 20:05

                      https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=d4O1A-mmBWw

                      When someone shows you who they are, over and over again? Believe them.

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                        Solstice @Herja
                        last edited by Solstice 28 Jun 2022, 20:57

                        @Herja

                        No God

                        “No God.”

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                          KarmaBum @tsar
                          last edited by 28 Jun 2022, 21:25

                          @tsar said in MU Peeves Thread:

                          can someone point him to a game where it’s allowed???

                          I’m working on a thing!

                          But I’m not sure I want this guy to be a part of it.

                          On Dragon Wings · https://pern.gaslightswitch.com · pern.gaslightswitch.com port 4201

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                            tsar @KarmaBum
                            last edited by 28 Jun 2022, 21:29

                            @KarmaBum he just needs to do it to belong

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                              Pyrephox Administrators
                              last edited by 28 Jun 2022, 21:39

                              Nothing makes me feel welcome like when the host offers me a meal…

                              …of their own flesh.

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                                crawfish @Pyrephox
                                last edited by 28 Jun 2022, 23:05

                                @Pyrephox There is
                                physical pain
                                in me
                                restraining myself

                                FROM ALLLLLL the things I wanna reply with

                                @Herja help

                                I draw things! http://www.mahaldoodles.com

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                                  Herja @crawfish
                                  last edited by 28 Jun 2022, 23:11

                                  @crawfish I’m not sure anyone in this hobby needs Jesus more than you.

                                  lol lmao

                                  It's me, hi, I'm the problem it's me

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                                    dvoraen @Herja
                                    last edited by 28 Jun 2022, 23:12

                                    @Herja said in MU Peeves Thread:

                                    @crawfish I’m not sure anyone in this hobby needs Jesus more than you.

                                    this

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                                      crawfish @Herja
                                      last edited by crawfish 28 Jun 2022, 23:25

                                      @Herja HOW DARE YOU OUT ME

                                      ETA: Because everyone knows I’m pure and innocent and something something yeah I can’t even finish writing

                                      I draw things! http://www.mahaldoodles.com

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                                        IoleRae
                                        last edited by 28 Jun 2022, 23:44

                                        lulz

                                        the entity previously known as Sunny

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                                          dvoraen @crawfish
                                          last edited by 29 Jun 2022, 00:26

                                          @crawfish said in MU Peeves Thread:

                                          @Herja HOW DARE YOU OUT ME

                                          ETA: Because everyone knows I’m pure and innocent and something something yeah I can’t even finish writing

                                          As one Twitch streamer I occasionally watch says in her “who am I” moments (when she gets raided, and such): “Hi! I’m <name>… and I cuss a lot. So if you have small children and want to stay pure in the eyes of the Lord, I wouldn’t. fucking. be here!”

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