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MU Peeves Thread
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@Whisky said in MU Peeves Thread:
@foksthery said in MU Peeves Thread:
An ooooooold peeve that I was reminded of recently. I was once on a shitty zombie game that had rules about “thought-posing”. As in, your pose could not contain anything that other people couldn’t immediately respond to. Flavor meta had to be all things that were immediately observable and that’s it, and people would stop scenes if they saw the Forbidden Meta.
I think this one depends though, like I’ve been in scenes where people have thought-posed disliking my character or “thinking they are really weird”. Which is just being passive aggressive without any IC consequences. Not like I can pose responding to it.
Or on a MUD where people would “privately consider Lord Smith’s words” or “internally disagree with Lady Spencer” that leaves neither of those players unable to respond.
I had one where the guy was like “He thinks to himself about what a terrible blunder <character> has made and rushes in to save him”
And we’d talked before about him thought posing at me, so I started doing it back.
He went OOC and told me that I was offensive.
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I can sometimes get caught up in a story and put commentary. However, I made my character one that you can just read their thoughts on their face, or in their eyes. That means, call me on it. Call the char on it. If I type it, you read it, you can react to it.
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In game settings where telepathy exists, and on games where thought-posing is annoying me, I will make a telepath and those thoughts will get read for maximum effect.
You have been warned.
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Thought posing in a one on one scene in order to provide context and a glimpse of an interior life of the character is great. Thought posing in bar RP to be a snarky jerk without getting the consequences of being a snarky jerk is annoying and puts those players on my To Be Avoided list.
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@Herja At least it’s not first person perspective thought posing.
I don't know what I'm doing. Poke at Seven Nations sevennations.aresmush.com port 2021
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@Testament First person perspective TS thought posing.
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When someone gets super pissy because your character didn’t react/act the way they wanted them to.
This hasn’t happened to me for a bit so stop checking amongst yourselves, I just suddenly remembered how much it sucks.
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When a lonely, attention starved player creates so much drama and and strife in a game it gives you an actual migraine.
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@Twinkle Usually preceded with them saying “I hate drama.”
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@Twinkle On the flip side, I’ve also seen players and staff scapegoat a player they don’t like.
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@Pavel And/or my favourite, putting in their +finger that they’re definitely 100% OOCly okay with IC drama and it’s all IC.
And then it’s followed by a post saying they need to take a break because they’re really stressed out OOCly about all the IC drama.
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@Rathenhope said in MU Peeves Thread:
@Pavel And/or my favourite, putting in their +finger that they’re definitely 100% OOCly okay with IC drama and it’s all IC.
I have pretty much never seen a note like that in someone’s +finger that didn’t eventually turn into them being huge drama mongers.
@foksthery said in MU Peeves Thread:
@Twinkle On the flip side, I’ve also seen players and staff scapegoat a player they don’t like.
I’m not sure how that’s a flipside to the original point? That seems like an entirely separate thing.
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@Whisky said in MU Peeves Thread:
@foksthery said in MU Peeves Thread:
An ooooooold peeve that I was reminded of recently. I was once on a shitty zombie game that had rules about “thought-posing”. As in, your pose could not contain anything that other people couldn’t immediately respond to. Flavor meta had to be all things that were immediately observable and that’s it, and people would stop scenes if they saw the Forbidden Meta.
I think this one depends though, like I’ve been in scenes where people have thought-posed disliking my character or “thinking they are really weird”. Which is just being passive aggressive without any IC consequences. Not like I can pose responding to it.
But you CAN, you CAN respond to it. You should, it’s fun! RESPOND TO IT and if they dare to call you out, say “I could read it in your character’s body language/expression” and if they still complain you get to say THEN DON’T THOUGHT POSE, YOU PIECE OF SHIT
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@hellfrog i find doing that is a real good barometer if its just a posing style or they’re trying to fuck with you or play ooc games without being the bad guy/gal. The behavior of the person towards me once I start calling it out is very very telling.
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@hellfrog +roll perception + empathy
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I am terrible at non-verbal cues in my poses so I try to be obvious “it is clear he is upset” or “his eyebrows show disbelief” or whatever.
If I pose it people should be able to respond.
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I don’t actually mean I get all aggro with people who thoughtpose benign things/things about themselves or their state of mind. Just people who thoughtpose passive aggressively.
I don’t actually mind thoughtposing; I do it myself! I just make sure if my thoughtposes are belittling or questioning anyone, it’s me.
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Is that the trend now? Thoughtposing? I know it used to be a thing some years ago, but lately I’ve seen it cropping up more and more frequently. So I don’t know if that means I just haven’t noticed it all that much or if it’s coming back into style again, like low-rise jeans.
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No disrespect to the cool people here who do it as their ‘style’ or whatever, but I hate thoughtposting so much I’ll tap out of a scene it’s done in and quit games saturated with it.
It makes no sense to me. Twitching in consternation or raising a puzzled eyebrow, etc, don’t constitute this in my opinion, and oftentimes there are ways to inject the same flavor of information with other more appropriate literary devices - or, you know, just… expressions and mannerisms such as the above.
The ‘line’ I have with it is literally the difference between ‘Jane stares daggers at Dick - what could he possibly have done to warrant such venom?!’ versus ‘Dick couldn’t get it up on demand this morning and as a result, Jane is in high dudgeon, stopping just short of publicly shaming him for his lack of turgidity in her time of abject need.’
If there’s no way I could know a thing short of reading Jane’s mind, Jane needs to fuck off with the info until such time as it can be conveyed appropriately. Passive-aggressive thoughtposting I just get overtly nasty about, and ever since I quit Twitter/doomscrolling, I have a lot of petty nastiness saved up.
