Character Death
-
It sounds like you were generous for not killing them and like they were being stupid.
That being said I feel for staffers who probably sometimes find themselves going…
That was really dumb and should probably kill them.
But I don’t want to kill their pc.
And omg the fit they are going to throw.
It sounds like you were more than fair by having them almost die, but not die.
-
@MisterBoring said in Character Death:
Has anyone else been witness too or heard about this phenomenon?
Long ago I was the co-head (though this was referred to as god because good lord we were full of ourselves) of Metro 2 and also the Changeling wiz. I was running a Changeling scene and I forget a lot of the actual details on how this came about, but there was this Sidhe who was fighting a handful of Thallain during a plot I had been running for a bit. The sidhe had prided himself on being this impressive duelist and was OOCly a bit of an upstart by comparison to some of the more established characters. I warned him that the Thallain he was fighting, which were Shadow Courtiers (I wish I could remember what their kiths were, it was 2nd edition since this was back in the late 00s) were very accomplished and he could quickly find himself outmatched. I even gave him narrative reason to back down and flee, and he wasn’t part of a noble house that was particularly martial or had reasons to stand and fight. I think he might have even been an Eiluned. Anyway, he absolutely did not take me up on this. I explained that even if it’s not lethal, he may be captured. No change to his actions. I don’t remember the exact conversation, but I feel confident saying he told me he would go down fighting. There had recently been a lot of heroic battle on the game since we had just had this big Halloween weekend event thing.
Cut to getting, as I suspected, trashed by the NPCs. Man, he was pissed. He didn’t die. The goal of the Shadow Court was to acquire assets in the Freehold, not to kill them. I told him that he would end up being a prisoner and he threw a fit and quit the game. This actually left me in a lurch because we had some difficulties with our previous characters who had been in control of the Freehold (a Liam and a Dougal Sidhe pair who were transitioning out of the game) and I had hoped that this other Sidhe would step up to take the county.
I feel like there have been a handful of these kinds of cases at everywhere I’ve staffed except maybe Darkwater. I actually haven’t killed a lot of PCs, despite having staffed on places that had a fairly high death count. There were only a few times where it felt like it would be a fitting end to the character’s story and that the other player agreed. I think with this sort of thing where they get angry about it, people think they want to play through big consequences and that their luck will hold and they’re going to be a big damn hero that people will tell stories about, but come to realize that they have the same luck as anyone else. Then they realize that the heroics they attempted to perform weren’t worth it by comparison to what they stood to lose.
To quote Cormac Mccarthy, “Every moment in your life is a turning and every one a choosing. Somewhere you made a choice. All followed to this. The accounting is scrupulous. The shape is drawn. No line can be erased.” He was probably talking about pretending to be a werewolf on the internet here.
-
@MisterBoring said in Character Death:
@somasatori said in Character Death:
I feel like there can be this push to misery-porn WoD games
I want a push to a different kind of WoD game. I want a WoD game that focuses very deeply on the struggle to maintain basic utilities when you’re a walking reality bending monster.
all i want is to run up the side of a building while wearing ten inch heels and then cut off an angel’s head with a gigantic praying mantis arm and nobody will let you do that anymore
-
I love a good Actual Death For Realsies. It contributes to the scene, it raises stakes, it opens the door to the idea that this isn’t a sandpit of make-pretend toys, and it can evoke strong feeling, which is always one of my highest goals as a storyteller. Even an Actual Death For Realsies that is in-universe pointless has an OOC effect.
- I’ve had at least two characters die who could have escaped their fates quickly and easily but they would have had to give up their pride/wrath/ego/etc. The natural end to their character arcs was being unable to overcome their flaws and succumbing to them.
- I’ve had one die to bad rolls in a hellish combat scene. I made a snap decision in the moment to kill him off because I thought “something’s lacking if everyone survives this”. His death wasn’t dignified or heroic, he just met his end the same way a sentence meets a full stop.
- I’ve killed one off because it kicked off combat in a hilarious manner, and no one was sad to see that wanker get eaten lol.
While I do get attached to characters, and there are some I would never kill off no matter how much they deserve it because they’re too fun, it’s sometimes refreshing and electrifying to sacrifice a character you’ve invested in for the sake of the story. Sometimes it’s a snap decision, sometimes it’s calculated and planned as a story beat.
And to be fair if I’m retiring a character to make way for an alt I like to kill them off in a good story for the benefit of others. I say this, knowing that one of those deaths got my next character tangible XP benefits, so perhaps I’m biased!
I do believe a character’s Actual Death For Realsies should be in the hands of the player the vast majority of the time. The times where it isn’t? That’s when we get “Aim for the bushes” from @MisterBoring, with whom I disagree, reading that I thought it was very funny.
After thinking for 5min, you could probably make a short Consent To Actual Death For Realsies checklist:
- Does the player agree to Actual Death For Realsies?
- If not, is the risk of Actual Death For Realsies clear, apparent, conveyed, and as blatantly clear as crystal?
If those two points are not met, then there is no Actual Death For Realsies.
So yes, I love this topic, I love exploring it, and I love seeing it done for many many reasons. I could ramble about this for hours but my RL time to post this has run out lol.
-
@Prototart said in Character Death:
@MisterBoring said in Character Death:
@somasatori said in Character Death:
I feel like there can be this push to misery-porn WoD games
I want a push to a different kind of WoD game. I want a WoD game that focuses very deeply on the struggle to maintain basic utilities when you’re a walking reality bending monster.
all i want is to run up the side of a building while wearing ten inch heels and then cut off an angel’s head with a gigantic praying mantis arm and nobody will let you do that anymore
-
@Prototart said in Character Death:
@MisterBoring said in Character Death:
@somasatori said in Character Death:
I feel like there can be this push to misery-porn WoD games
I want a push to a different kind of WoD game. I want a WoD game that focuses very deeply on the struggle to maintain basic utilities when you’re a walking reality bending monster.
all i want is to run up the side of a building while wearing ten inch heels and then cut off an angel’s head with a gigantic praying mantis arm and nobody will let you do that anymore
I will Demon with you if you Mum-Rah with meeee~
-
@Jennkryst Can I be a Mekhet vamp mummy cultist whose bloodline serves your tomb?
-
@labsunlimited said in Character Death:
@Jennkryst Can I be a Mekhet vamp mummy cultist whose bloodline serves your tomb?
Absolutely! My only regret is that as walking corpses, I forget if they can Blood Doll.
-
While I’m a big proponent of character-death-when-it’s-appropriate-to-the-story, one thing that I think needs to be talked about a little bit is how that death will impact other characters. Do the players of your character’s loved ones (family, significant others, packmates, etc) want to play out grief?
While I think that character death should pretty much always be done with player consent (except in the case of Aim for the Bushes, but I consider that consent-by-continuation-after-warnings), there’s also the non-death effects on everyone around the character to consider, and a lot of folks (myself included) who have gone for death-for-drama’s-sake haven’t always considered the knock-on effects.
Formerly known as Seraphim73 (he/him)
-
@Roadspike said in Character Death:
Do the players of your character’s loved ones (family, significant others, packmates, etc) want to play out grief?
Take this with the extreme sarcastic tone as it is intended to have… people can’t mention real life events on channels because it reminds everyone else that the real world is shit and we are on games for pretendy-good-fun-times. Grieving over dead characters just reminds people that death exists and the real world is shit and we are on games for pretendy-good-fun-times.
-
@Roadspike said in Character Death:
Do the players of your character’s loved ones (family, significant others, packmates, etc) want to play out grief?
I think that question is ultimately answered by asking a second question:
Do the players of your character’s loved ones understand your approach and willingness to participate in character death?
I think it’s a serious conversation that needs to happen anytime someone wants to play a PC with an emotional bond with another PC. How much grief are you willing to deal with as their bonded PC? This goes beyond character death and into just the consequences of failure or social conflict in general. Are you okay with witnessing a character your character is bonded to in some way going through all manner of tragedy and tribulations?
-
I love rping eulogizing a dead character. Non-sarcastic. I got a lot of practice at this and discovered I really enjoy it. Real characters are best, I also did a spider funeral at one point but that was for specific IC reasons and I had fun with that too.
let it be a challenge to you
-
@sao said in Character Death:
I also did a spider funeral at one point but that was for specific IC reasons and I had fun with that too.
A Gangrel in a Vampire LARP I played in would make his entire Clan attend funerals for animals that died in service to his needs.
-
When I RP’d a preacher on good ol’ Fort Bloodshed I had a tally of how many weddings I did vs how many funerals. Weddings were ahead but just barely. The funerals were far and away the better RP of the two.
-
@Ashkuri said in Character Death:
The funerals were far and away the better RP of the two.
Every wedding I’ve ever been a guest at on a MU has always just felt like social-rp and never felt like it impacted anything. Every funeral on the other hand rearranged the social structures of the gam.
Proud Member of the Pro-Mummy Alliance
-
@sao said in Character Death:
I love rping eulogizing a dead character. Non-sarcastic. I got a lot of practice at this and discovered I really enjoy it. Real characters are best, I also did a spider funeral at one point but that was for specific IC reasons and I had fun with that too.
I want a eulogy from Aureth now.
-
@dvoraen I mean, I’m sure he kept them up for many years after we stopped playing. He may be Dominus but he’s still Death’s special boy.
-
@MisterBoring said in Character Death:
@Ashkuri said in Character Death:
The funerals were far and away the better RP of the two.
Every wedding I’ve ever been a guest at on a MU has always just felt like social-rp and never felt like it impacted anything. Every funeral on the other hand rearranged the social structures of the gam.
This is because, similar to real life, at a MUSH wedding you’re just celebrating that two people can now bang it out according to God, but at a funeral you’re realizing they can never bang it out again
-
@somasatori said in Character Death:
but at a funeral you’re realizing they can never bang it out again
Are you trying to slyly suggest that MU character funerals include a reading of the “best of” bits of their TS poses?
-
@MisterBoring said in Character Death:
Are you trying to slyly suggest that MU character funerals include a reading of the “best of” bits of their TS poses?
I would never suggest such a thing! But now that you mention it–
