Ruiz Thread
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@Cobalt You might refer her to this thread; I think people have given a few good outlines of the player’s SOP up above. The biggest consistent points I’ve seen is an extreme desire to keep IC romantic play private, consistent misrepresentation of that play to other players in order to make their romantic partners the “bad guys”, and when called on their bad behavior they have a tendency to say that they “can’t read the room” or “didn’t mean for it to be seen that way but aren’t good with people” or “didn’t remember it happening that way, but it would be better if <you did what they want>” or they’re “too busy/anxious/panicking right now and can’t talk about it”, then coming back and acting like things had been decided in their favor. They’ll usually be very enthusiastic about pursuing high drama, high intensity plots/scenes, but then try to guilt trip and pressure other players about how those scenes turned out if they weren’t exactly what they wanted (but will rarely actually talk about what they want in a straightforward way).
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@Cobalt She should be able to just do a search on ‘Ruiz’ and find plenty on MSB. IIRC there was a LOT of chatter there when GH closed down.
I can’t check my work though cause, y’know, BANNED.
ETA: I’m pretty sure it was all in the Hog Pit though so idk if it’s still there…
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@Snackness The Hog Pit’s still there and visible, it’s just in archive form.
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Thanks, appreciate that, KK here.
the guy I am thinking about has all those tells and then some, but not comfortable going into it. But I appreciate hearing the tells if anything to help me process wtf happened.
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@Laurel if it is someone at the new harvest moon game it is very possible it is them.
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They also like violence and biting hamstrings and having their lovers go “teehee <the character> is so violent but I love them”.
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@bear_necessities said in Ruiz Thread:
They also like violence and biting hamstrings and having their lovers go “teehee <the character> is so violent but I love them”.
I mean, I don’t see anything wrong with that by itself.
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@bear_necessities The hamstrings hurk
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@Laurel said in Ruiz Thread:
Thanks, appreciate that, KK here.
the guy I am thinking about has all those tells and then some, but not comfortable going into it. But I appreciate hearing the tells if anything to help me process wtf happened.
I’ll repeat what I said above: If someone is behaving that way to you, it doesn’t matter if it’s this player or not. You don’t deserve to be treated that way, and if you’re uncomfortable, please recognize that you have a right to be.
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@shit-piss-love I don’t think that’s what she was implying, 'cause trust me, hamstring-biting would be tame compared to some of the weird shit Bear’s RPed
It’s more just part of the pattern of behavior. If you notice this person in a bunch of one-on-one scenes that never seem to get posted + the other people in those scenes start making allusions to rough sex…
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@bear_necessities said in Ruiz Thread:
They also like violence and biting hamstrings
Like… during
foreplaysex??Cobalt@Under the Stars
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@Cobalt said in Ruiz Thread:
@bear_necessities said in Ruiz Thread:
They also like violence and biting hamstrings
Like… during foreplay??
Do you really think these people know about foreplay?
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@Pavel fair enough
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@Cobalt said in Ruiz Thread:
@bear_necessities said in Ruiz Thread:
They also like violence and biting hamstrings
Like… during
foreplaysex??I’m not sure nor do I want to be filled in on the details but the scene I read was the confirmation that Ruiz ripped out his lover’s hamstring and the person was hobbling around on a cane. Yeah.
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@bear_necessities said in Ruiz Thread:
@Cobalt said in Ruiz Thread:
@bear_necessities said in Ruiz Thread:
They also like violence and biting hamstrings
Like… during
foreplaysex??I’m not sure nor do I want to be filled in on the details but the scene I read was the confirmation that Ruiz ripped out his lover’s hamstring and the person was hobbling around on a cane. Yeah.
@KarmaBum said in Ruiz Thread:
@shit-piss-love I don’t think that’s what she was implying, 'cause trust me, hamstring-biting would be tame compared to some of the weird shit Bear’s RPed
It’s more just part of the pattern of behavior. If you notice this person in a bunch of one-on-one scenes that never seem to get posted + the other people in those scenes start making allusions to rough sex…
Oh uh… Carry on.
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@bear_necessities I don’t. I don’t understand.
But I think that’s probably a good thing.
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I have my guesses but they make me sad.
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@Cobalt said in Ruiz Thread:
@bear_necessities said in Ruiz Thread:
They also like violence and biting hamstrings
Like… during
foreplaysex??I am killing myself laughing trying to imagine how that would get posed in text.
