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Moments I feel like a real adult...

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    Pyrephox Administrators
    last edited by 12 Mar 2023, 22:14

    I pay all the bills for my household! I have successfully done this for years, but it only really hit me when my elderly father moved in with me. Now I am truly the breadwinner, and it’s stressful, but sometimes also feels weirdly good? Like checking off an achievement.

    And then being terrified that I will lose my income and we will both be homeless and starve to death. Which is also a very ‘real adult’ feeling.

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      Pavel @Pyrephox
      last edited by 12 Mar 2023, 22:29

      @Pyrephox said in Moments I feel like a real adult...:

      my elderly father moved in with me

      On the plus side, now you get to say “my house, my rules.”

      He/Him. Opinions and views are solely my own unless specifically stated otherwise.
      BE AN ADULT

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        Pyrephox Administrators @Pavel
        last edited by 12 Mar 2023, 22:29

        @Pavel said in Moments I feel like a real adult...:

        @Pyrephox said in Moments I feel like a real adult...:

        my elderly father moved in with me

        On the plus side, now you get to say “my house, my rules.”

        No, I really don’t.

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          Raeras
          last edited by 17 Mar 2023, 14:08

          I made plans with 2 works friends to meet OUTSIDE of work this Sunday.

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            Vulgar Boy
            last edited by 17 Mar 2023, 18:56

            I fixed my stupid dishwasher.

            It was very satisfying.

            Stupid dishwasher.

            love that perfect frown

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              Tez Administrators @Raeras
              last edited by 17 Mar 2023, 19:14

              @Raeras said in Moments I feel like a real adult...:

              I made plans with 2 works friends to meet OUTSIDE of work this Sunday.

              I support you as a person but I can’t bring myself to upvote this.

              WORK PEOPLE?

              OUTSIDE?

              ON WEEKEND?

              she/they

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                Raeras @Tez
                last edited by 17 Mar 2023, 19:29

                @Tez 🤣 I know. It’s crazy. We’re going to get pastries though and talk about non-work stuff! Probably. Who knows!

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                  Tez Administrators @Raeras
                  last edited by 17 Mar 2023, 20:00

                  @Raeras I can upvote pastries. I hope you and the pastries have fun.

                  she/they

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                    Snackness
                    last edited by Snackness 18 Mar 2023, 16:41

                    My husband just came in and told me there was a new stoplight going up just outside our neighborhood, which we enthusiastically chattered about for a minute or so (because we need it!).

                    My 8yo son, sarcastic: “Yay, a new stoplight.”

                    Me: “This is what happens when you grow up.”

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                      sao
                      last edited by 22 Mar 2023, 01:01

                      I poured a cup of baking soda down my bathtub drain and now my bathtub drains again.

                      I have conquered … whatever gunk was slowing it up. Mighty am I.

                      let it be a challenge to you

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                        Pavel
                        last edited by 22 Mar 2023, 01:13

                        My dishwasher was throwing up an error and refusing to drain. I put it up on blocks like one would a car, and disassembled the lower portion to get access to the flood switch. Disabled the switch, drained and rebuilt the filter/pump section, and now it works again.

                        I know this is only a temporary stop gap, but it feels good to fix something.

                        He/Him. Opinions and views are solely my own unless specifically stated otherwise.
                        BE AN ADULT

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                          Aria @sao
                          last edited by 22 Mar 2023, 02:56

                          @sao said in Moments I feel like a real adult...:

                          I poured a cup of baking soda down my bathtub drain and now my bathtub drains again.

                          I have conquered … whatever gunk was slowing it up. Mighty am I.

                          FYI: If it ever gets really bad, a drain snake is all of about $25 at Lowe’s and that is much cheaper than calling a plumber. It’s also easy! And very gross.

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                            Solstice @Aria
                            last edited by 22 Mar 2023, 15:19

                            I had not truly stared into the abyss until I snaked the drain.

                            Wear gloves, a mask (trust me), and have the trash bin right nearby so you can fling it out the door as soon as possible.

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                              Raeras
                              last edited by 23 Mar 2023, 17:13

                              I navigated a very busy downtownish area/parking garage on my lunch break without panicking \o/

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                                Gasboy @Pavel
                                last edited by 24 Mar 2023, 12:10

                                @Pavel If they can’t find you handsome, they can at least find you handy. - Red Green (probably)

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                                  Gasboy @Solstice
                                  last edited by Gasboy 24 Mar 2023, 12:11

                                  @Solstice As someone who has pulled 6 foot monsters outta drains in my house, this is advice people need to take…

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