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IC Consequences and OOC Acceptance
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@Roadspike said in IC Consequences and OOC Acceptance:
In my experience, PvP-eager players tend to be very bad at determining the “right” level of response to a threat. I know that I’m generalizing very broadly, but from what I’ve seen, even in social situations, the tendency seems to be to go from 0 to 100 immediately, because if you don’t go scorched earth, they’ll just come back and attack you. Never mind that a back-and-forth antagonism makes for great RP as long as both players are onboard for winning some and losing some.
Once Upon a Time, back on WORA, I remember having some very baffling conversations with people about PvP. Strong voices in the WOD community were completely unapologetic about the fact that they would escalate to PK as soon as possible, whenever possible. In their words, it was “stupid” to accept any outcome other than the destruction of your IC enemies, because the assumption was that if they didn’t, their enemies would. The whole point was to use as much violence, preferably in as stacked a conflict as possible (even better if you could kill by +job), because there was no fun in conflict, there was only ‘removing this obstacle to my fun’.
It’s a completely different mindset from anything I’d ever been interested in, but it explained a lot about the situations I was running into with WoD games of the time.
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One of the greatest relationships I ever played was enemies to grudging allies to friends and my only regret is that both characters were our secondary “alts” so we didn’t get as much screentime (so to speak) as we could have. I paid for art of them at one point which was clearly @Tez’s character about to stab mine with a broken bottle. (sorry this is clearly me doing the tangent about myself thing, hello adhd - but here’s the art: https://64.media.tumblr.com/3d2d241f9b0da3c151dd6feca676288c/tumblr_nbcjhfqI2r1rj81qdo1_1280.jpg)
I prefer PvP that is character versus character, not player versus player. I don’t want to be combative with other players. It is not my jam.
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@sao said in IC Consequences and OOC Acceptance:
I prefer PvP that is character versus character, not player versus player. I don’t want to be combative with other players. It is not my jam.
I remember a push a while back for PvP to be renamed to CvC to emphasize exactly this point. I think it’s a great point that needs to be made and feeds into @Pyrephox’s point above: if you’re actually playing player-versus-player you might as well be playing Team Fortress Classic, because the only acceptable move is to obliterate the other person as soon as you can, so they don’t do it to you.
If you’re playing character-versus-character, there’s room for infinite intermediate steps that can build a relationship between the characters, even if it’s one based on hatred and mistrust. It leads to ongoing stories, not an orgy (or a whimper for said job-based kills) of destruction that then ends the storyline of at least one character.
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@Pyrephox said in IC Consequences and OOC Acceptance:
it was “stupid” to accept any outcome other than the destruction of your IC enemies, because the assumption was that if they didn’t, their enemies would
If you’re a thief, you’re worried about being robbed. If you’re infidelious, you’re worried you’re going to get cheated on. If you’re a murder hobo, you’re worried about being ganked at spawn.
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@Roadspike said in IC Consequences and OOC Acceptance:
I remember a push a while back for PvP to be renamed to CvC to emphasize exactly this point. I think it’s a great point that needs to be made and feeds into @Pyrephox’s point above: if you’re actually playing player-versus-player you might as well be playing Team Fortress Classic, because the only acceptable move is to obliterate the other person as soon as you can, so they don’t do it to you.
I get where you’re coming from, but I think most people ARE playing player-vs-player. It’s just baked into gaming at this point. It’s like a battle of wits where someone “wins” and someone “loses”.
When you’re just talking about organic story antagonism, I think that leads to a more cooperative sort of environment where you’re not really doing either PvP or CvC–you’re just telling stories and sometimes characters are acting cross-purposes with each other.
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@Solstice said in IC Consequences and OOC Acceptance:
Mostly, PvP punishes you for giving a shit.
Hahah. Yeah.
Hell, a lot of dealings regarding ‘OOC Acceptance’ do too. There’s a tendancy to vilify player investment as not chill and reward indifferent players as chill.
Over-investment is certainly a thing, but there’s also some cases where it seems like that the meta-game of the MU is to get what you want by making yourself look like the more easy-going and thus ‘better’ player in any conflict.
Abelard: “Uh, hey Awesome, Bridget RPed setting fire to my PC’s lawn. At that IC time he would have been at home staring out the front window with an uzi in his lap, like he does every night, but at the OOC time I was at work. So this is kind of a problem.”
AwesomeStaffer: “All right, how do you guys want to resolve this?”
Bridget: “Oh, I’m fine with anything. Whatever you like.”
Abelard: “Cool, how about option A?”
Bridget: “That would damage my character’s shoes, and isn’t acceptable to me.”
AwesomeStaffer: “What would work?”
Bridget: “How about I set fire to Abelard’s lawn and he just sat there? But you know, I’m good with anything.”
Abelard: “Abelard’s lawn is supremely important to him and he just would not behave that way. How about option B?”
Bridget: “That would delete all our scenes of planning to burn Abelard’s lawn, so, no.”
AwesomeStaffer: “You can’t have option A or B. Abelard, what do you want to do?”
Abelard: “… I don’t know.”
AwesomeStaffer: “You’re being a pain.”
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@Gashlycrumb God yes, some games are DEEP into the meta-game of making themselves seem reasonable to gamerunners as a way to win PvP scenarios. Putting on a super chill act during conflict is early stage manipul-itis - then players start designing their moves in anticipation of future staff arbitration. At that point the experience is basically dead and it’s time to get out.
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@Gashlycrumb said in IC Consequences and OOC Acceptance:
Bridget: “How about I set fire to Abelard’s lawn and he just sat there? But you know, I’m good with anything.”
I feel this in my bones. I SEE YOU, BRIDGET.
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@Gashlycrumb said in IC Consequences and OOC Acceptance:
@Solstice said in IC Consequences and OOC Acceptance:
Mostly, PvP punishes you for giving a shit.
Hahah. Yeah.
Hell, a lot of dealings regarding ‘OOC Acceptance’ do too. There’s a tendancy to vilify player investment as not chill and reward indifferent players as chill.
Over-investment is certainly a thing, but there’s also some cases where it seems like that the meta-game of the MU is to get what you want by making yourself look like the more easy-going and thus ‘better’ player in any conflict.
Abelard: “Uh, hey Awesome, Bridget RPed setting fire to my PC’s lawn. At that IC time he would have been at home staring out the front window with an uzi in his lap, like he does every night, but at the OOC time I was at work. So this is kind of a problem.”
AwesomeStaffer: “All right, how do you guys want to resolve this?”
Bridget: “Oh, I’m fine with anything. Whatever you like.”
Abelard: “Cool, how about option A?”
Bridget: “That would damage my character’s shoes, and isn’t acceptable to me.”
AwesomeStaffer: “What would work?”
Bridget: “How about I set fire to Abelard’s lawn and he just sat there? But you know, I’m good with anything.”
Abelard: “Abelard’s lawn is supremely important to him and he just would not behave that way. How about option B?”
Bridget: “That would delete all our scenes of planning to burn Abelard’s lawn, so, no.”
AwesomeStaffer: “You can’t have option A or B. Abelard, what do you want to do?”
Abelard: “… I don’t know.”
AwesomeStaffer: “You’re being a pain.”
This sort of thing is precisely why ‘simulationism’ is a dirty word with me. This veers toward the very worst of the RPI MUD experience, which is some of the most toxic stuff in the entire hobby.
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@Gashlycrumb said in IC Consequences and OOC Acceptance:
AwesomeStaffer: “You’re being a pain.”
I mean… both players are kind of being a pain in that scenario so I’m not sure who I’m supposed to be rooting for here.
Abelard is refusing to compromise because it would damage something important to their character. Bridget is refusing to compromise because it would mean they failed at their goal.
That’s because they’re both viewing it from a PVP perspective. Someone wins and someone loses.
If either would come at it from a STORY perspective, they might realize all the possibilities that could come from it ICly.
Abelard could agree it happened. He has angst from the loss of his prized lawn, blaming himself for breaking his routine of nightly uzi-guarding or falling asleep on the job or getting up to go to the bathroom or whatever. Now he has to figure out who’s responsible and make them pay! And/or rebuild.
Bridget could agree she failed and figure out how Bridget would deal with that. Maybe she and her co-conspirators try again. Maybe there are some other consequences. Maybe she’s doubly mad at Abelard now because her shoes were damaged and she has to figure out how to repair/replace them.
But no. Every flipping thing has to be all or nothing. And that’s why I do everything in my power to avoid PVP setups on my games.
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@Faraday eh i don’t think that’s fair. at least not for the scenario as described.
it’s probably not reasonable to expect someone to happily incorporate a hostile action that happened when they weren’t even online. You can’t rp with someone while they are not around. If I log in and find out pyrephox has set my prized lawn on fire while i was sleeping? I can roll with that and be delighted, I know how pyre does conflict. I trust pyre! I like pyre!
If I log on and someone I don’t much like has done that? Doesn’t feel like fun that includes me. Bridget needs to get in her fkin lane and consider for two seconds if her IC actions are going to be at all enjoyable for anyone else to interact with.
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@Faraday That is one of the biggest hurdles of a PvP game. Even if you try to rebrand it as a CvC game, it requires a very mature player mindset for everyone involved. It’s really hard for everyone to do something for the greater good of the story, especially when everyone’s vision of the story is different. Even if the staff lays out a clear direction or goal, everyone’s path in that direction or to that goal can differ, which will impact how much they are willing to give to have their vision of the story reshaped.
Another level of difficulty is that the longer the characters last, the richer the character’s story becomes as it continues to build over time. That also means it is much harder to give up on a character or “lose”. It may happen where in a scene, two characters with very lengthy experiences and rich stories clash, and whichever side loses or has to give way, can impact what they have built up rather negatively moving forward. Then a “loser” will result and can even leave a bad experience for them, which sucks for not only that person but also for characters whose stories are heavily involved with that character who lost.
So PvP games may work best on games with short episodes, where characters are “wiped” or killed off in each episode, without consequences that are long lasting. If you lose or die, it’s fine because in a month or two, the slate is wiped clean and a new story is created.
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@hellfrog makes a note to set all the lawns on fire
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@Pyrephox one time in firan i set a piece of furniture on fire on someone’s lawn and got GAME FROZEN as Leia and The Council decided whether or not to yank my character away from me because that was really immature and crazy behavior!
My character with like Sanity/Maturity 1. That Leia wrote and statted.
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@hellfrog said in IC Consequences and OOC Acceptance:
If I log in and find out pyrephox has set my prized lawn on fire while i was sleeping? I can roll with that and be delighted, I know how pyre does conflict. I trust pyre! I like pyre!
If I log on and someone I don’t much like has done that?In a PVP game, I don’t think your like of the other player should factor into what consequences are acceptable to inflict.
I agree that it would be preferable to resolve things with RP, but that isn’t always possible due to conflicting timezones/schedules/etc.
ETA: Of course a game can enact whatever policies they deem fit re: off-camera consequences, from “none at all” to “anything short of death” to “you may die from the plague while offline”. I was assuming no specific rule existed in the example given.
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@Faraday said in IC Consequences and OOC Acceptance:
In a PVP game, I don’t think your like of the other player should factor into what consequences are acceptable to inflict.
I mean, this is certainly a cogent argument, but I do not think it is based in reality. ‘Should’ is not really the metric when it comes to human emotion and human emotional reactions - which are very nearly universal, in spite of some folks’ claims to be logic robots.
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@hellfrog said in IC Consequences and OOC Acceptance:
‘Should’ is not really the metric when it comes to human emotion and human emotional reactions
Quite true, but to be clear I was referring to “should” in terms of what we are willing to accept in terms of PVP policy. People can feel what they feel, but that doesn’t mean staff has to accommodate that.
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@Faraday Yeah, this was not one of my better efforts as a playwright. I did mean for Abelard’s options to be compromise-ish, while Bridget’s isn’t really even a suggestion. Drew a blank at the time, later brain spits out “Option A is that Abelard’s uzi jams so he runs out and chases Bridget off, and she escapes by leaping into the canal, Option B is that Bridget and her friends plan better and burn Abelard’s lawn at a time when he wouldn’t be there.”
Sure, both are being a pain, the situation is a pain. But Abelard didn’t create it, Bridget did, and Abelard’s looking for a solution while Bridget is looking to seem happy-go-lucky.
It’s possible that both of them just want to win. But also possible that neither is thinking that way.
I think it harsh to jump to the idea that Abelard just wants to win. Is he objecting to the fact that Bridget ‘won’ the encounter, or to the fact that he didn’t get to RP it? Bridget declared Abelard’s (in)action for him. Maybe if they really were looking for the best story that would be okay, but it’s not how RPGs work.
Maybe Bridget burned Abelard’s lawn while he was offline because that allowed her to win uncontested. But maybe she was just keen to RP the fun lawn-torching scene at that time, and genuinely thought that Abelard’s player wouldn’t mind and would choose inaction anyway. Maybe now Bridget doesn’t want to win, she just wants to avoid making everybody sift though their memories/logs to accomodate retcon.
@hellfrog I strongly suspect that, as @Pyrephox does conflict well, you just wouldn’t log on to find that they’d set your prized lawn on fire. Or that if you did, you’d also find that they’d planned it reasonably well and even had good success on a Snooping+Scatology roll so they could time it while Abelard was at his bi-monthly colonoscopy appointment, an off-camera event.
@hellfrog said in IC Consequences and OOC Acceptance:
one time in firan i set a piece of furniture on fire on someone’s lawn and got GAME FROZEN
These are the Tales of MU Fuckery that I come here for.
'You ride the mechanical bull, you do not fight it.'
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@Gashlycrumb said in IC Consequences and OOC Acceptance:
But Abelard didn’t create it, Bridget did
I think I get where you’re coming from. To be clear, I’m not saying Bridget did no wrong, and you’re totally right that her “I’m fine with anything… oh, no, not that thing…” is obnoxious.
My main point is that Abelard could’ve just rolled with the situation. The fact that staff even was involved in the first place seemed emblematic of the the whole problem of being unwilling to accept consequences.
Like, OK, his lawn burned when he wasn’t offline. That’s annoying, but is that really the end of the world? The whole basis of his objection “I sit there every night without fail with my uzi” is rooted in inflexibility.
But I get that maybe I was fixating on your specific example and missing your broader point
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I tend to find the “I’m okay with anything,” line needling even if the player gives the impression that it’s true by accepting the first suggestion. I’m usually asking, “What critera do you want for a solution,” and Abelard’s ‘demanding,’ “I want my suburban lawn security skills, weaponry and planning to come into play when my lawn is attacked,” is way more helpful than “anything’s fine” when I’m trying to come up with something that’s both workable and fun(ish) for all. “I’m good with anything,” comes across to me as being uncooperative while trying to appear super-cooperative.
My main point is that Abelard could’ve just rolled with the situation. The fact that staff even was involved in the first place seemed emblematic of the the whole problem of being unwilling to accept consequences.
Mmmm, why does going to staff = unwilling to accept consequences? Yeah, there’s is a school of thought that says that going to staff is in itself a hostile act, but this isn’t necessarily true and I don’t think it’s good to figure that he’s just hoping to use AwsomeStaffer as a hammer.
I’ve called it “The Smelt-it Dealt-it Effect” when staff is cross with you for reporting a problem and considers you to be part of that problem as a result.
Why should Abelard just roll with it? Why shouldn’t Bridget, who made the original mistake, roll with it when Abelard said no, and accept the consequences of her error?
If Abelard does roll with it, how often is he expected to do so? Bridget has turned his gaming experience from, “You enter the tavern and see a group of goblins playing Fan-Tan, what do you do?” to “You enter the tavern, see a group of goblins playing Fan-Tan and then shit yourself, why did that happen?” That’s not the end of the world, but at some point he’s going to arrive at the conclusion that this game is shit, because other player’s whims erase his IC efforts and his sheet. And when he does, AwesomeStaffer may well be left wondering why they can’t retain players, because Abelard never brought it to staff.
I bet everybody here has experienced this one:
Abelard pages AwesomeStaffer: I just met Camille at the Small Cafe and saw her stir her coffee with her thumb. I know from Splatbook: Loggers that nobody but a logger stirs his coffee with his thumb. But do I know this IC?
AwesomeStaffer: You’ve got a three in Observantiness, but your Logger Lore is only a two, so you don’t know that. Sorry.
Meanwhile, at the Bingo Hall:
Bridget (who has also read Splatbook: Loggers but has no Logger Lore skill): I met Camille today, she’s a logger.
Darius: Holy balls.
Bridget: I know, but nobody but a logger stirs his coffee with his thumb, and I saw her do it.
Darius: Let’s tell Euphonia, Ferdinand and Gretchen, quick!
Later:
Camille’s player, opening a beer, thinks: Well darn, there goes my plan to play a Logger on the Lam.
Abelard’s player, eating cheese, thinks: Well, darn, there goes my plan to find a Logger on the Lam and blackmail them into climbing up the Intimidatingly Tall Tree to get the ocelot.
You don’t want to ‘undo’ all these scenes of spilling the logger beans, what a pain and a drag and Darius, Euphonia, Ferdinand and Gretchen are having fun with it. Rolling with it will be way easier and more fun (at least in the short term), but you neither want this to be the way the game is played nor for players to be rewarded for playing it that way. Oif.
'You ride the mechanical bull, you do not fight it.'
