Ruiz Thread
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@CuriousGamer said in Macha Awareness (And Unappreciation) thread:
She namedrops the victim
I think we need to stop assigning victimhood to this person just because we are uncomfortable with Macha’s rp. This person was already on Cobalt’s watch list to begin with for “harem building”. Just from the other logs that Macha posted? Yeah. That dude gives me major Ruiz from GH vibes and my gut is very rarely ever wrong.
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@bear_necessities They may not be innocent, but in this particular case they probably don’t wish or necessarily deserve to be name dropped.
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@Gasboy of course they don’t appreciate being name-dropped. Would you appreciate being name dropped if your immediate next scene to the one you “reported for harassment” was you agreeing to have BDSM sex with the person you reported? I mean come on now lol
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@bear_necessities said in Macha Awareness (And Unappreciation) thread:
That dude gives me major Ruiz from GH vibes and my gut is very rarely ever wrong.
Freaking out about private logs getting shared is definitely Ruiz’ MO. It lets others see how much he lies.
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@L-B-Heuschkel said in Macha Awareness (And Unappreciation) thread:
@bear_necessities said in Macha Awareness (And Unappreciation) thread:
That dude gives me major Ruiz from GH vibes and my gut is very rarely ever wrong.
Freaking out about private logs getting shared is definitely Ruiz’ MO. It lets others see how much he lies.
For that matter, so is actively soliciting a high intensity, boundary-pushing scene, and then going extremely passive-aggressive when it doesn’t go exactly the way they want. If the other player IS Ruiz, then man, I’m on Team Nobody, or rather Team Everyone Did Some Abusive Nonsense Here.
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@Pyrephox said in Macha Awareness (And Unappreciation) thread:
@L-B-Heuschkel said in Macha Awareness (And Unappreciation) thread:
@bear_necessities said in Macha Awareness (And Unappreciation) thread:
That dude gives me major Ruiz from GH vibes and my gut is very rarely ever wrong.
Freaking out about private logs getting shared is definitely Ruiz’ MO. It lets others see how much he lies.
For that matter, so is actively soliciting a high intensity, boundary-pushing scene, and then going extremely passive-aggressive when it doesn’t go exactly the way they want. If the other player IS Ruiz, then man, I’m on Team Nobody, or rather Team Everyone Did Some Abusive Nonsense Here.
So is reporting someone to admin for bad behavior after their own bad behavior is about to be revealed, so yeah. This just reeks.
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T Tez referenced this topic on 14 Mar 2023, 15:45
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@bear_necessities If every scene that someone is in can’t be shared - then there’s probably something wrong.
I didn’t read the logs fully. I found them cringey enough just briefly skimming through them to know - this is not the kind of thing I want to read.
Without actual PM threads, ooc’s, we don’t know the full story. But then again - do we really need to? We know that Macha is a person toxic af, holds grudges decades long, has no desire to change and has in fact only gotten worse, and may or may not be JK Rowling. For those blind enough to not look at the pattern of behavior then hey. Good for them. Go meet a new friend.
I don’t know anything at all about Ruiz. I don’t think I’ve ever encountered them in the wild.
I guess in this instance - it boils down to the gamerunner (cobalt) made a decision that was right for her, and for her game. Macha will try to use semantics, technicals, etc to argue points. This person was banned over this person, but why? But it also comes down to Cobalt made a judgement call. A call that was right for her. For her own mental sanity, and I think every game runner and staffer makes those choices at some point in their career.
For Ruiz, anyone have any particular history here? I’m a Ruiz n00b and don’t even know what to look for, or how bad of an actor they are.
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@CuriousGamer said in Ruiz Thread:
For Ruiz, anyone have any particular history here? I’m a Ruiz n00b and don’t even know what to look for, or how bad of an actor they are.
https://musoapbox.net/topic/3534/vague-post-like-woah-advice-please
Sums it up.
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Yeah. That was def Ruiz. This isn’t an opinion. I just got sources.
I’m like April O’Neil or some shit.
Edited because I’m late to the party due to unforeseen connectivity issues dammmmmmit
I’d say Ghost is showing his true colors but the dude’s always been transparent af
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@Coin said in Ruiz Thread:
I’d say Ghost is showing his true colors but the dude’s always been transparent af
I mean, he is…
A GHOST.
(they’re transparent, you see. I’m very clever. >.>)
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If this person is Ruiz then I feel even less comfortable with painting him as a victim because this is precisely his MO. We can hate on Macha without turning the other person into a victim - in fact, it is hilarious to me that these two crazy people found each other to be crazy at.
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Or, on the other hand, everyone’s a victim here.
Macha’s a victim of Ruiz.
Ruiz is a victim of Macha.
Cobalt’s a victim of a pit of scorpions.
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@bear_necessities it happens so often, people like this are drawn to each other because what’s a red flag? What’s a boundary?
And then the inevitable drama quagmire lands in some poor staffer’s lap.
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Hi. I’ve been one of Ruiz-player’s casualties. My topic interactions with them are a big reason I pulled back from all rp eventually.
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@junipersky sorry to hear that.
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https://thepack.aresmush.com/char/Isaac
https://harvestmoons.aresmush.com/char/ElijahLooks familiar.
Any pronouns. Come to Chincoteague. We have ponies. http://keys.aresmush.com
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B bear_necessities referenced this topic on 14 Mar 2023, 20:46
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This just makes me sigh.
