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    Silent Heaven: Gaslight, Gatekeep, Girlboss

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    • NarsonN
      Narson
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      disgruntled

      When someone shows you who they are, over and over again? Believe them.

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        GF
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        Nothing says “I am the only adult in this room” like a bunch of all-caps posts swearing at everyone who doesn’t uncritically and unconditionally support you.

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          Pavel @GF
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          @GF said in Silent Heaven: Gaslight, Gatekeep, Girlboss:

          Nothing says “I am the only adult in this room” like a bunch of all-caps posts swearing at everyone who doesn’t uncritically and unconditionally support you.

          I really should start all-caps-swearing compliments. Like “I REALLY FUCKING ENJOYED MY TIME AT YOUR GODDAMN HOUSE YESTERDAY, I HOPE YOUR MOTHER IS DOING REALLY FUCKING WELL.” Just to change things up.

          He/Him. Opinions and views are solely my own unless specifically stated otherwise.
          BE AN ADULT

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            HannahBananna @Adora
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            @Adora said in Silent Heaven: Gaslight, Gatekeep, Girlboss:

            Pffft… ffffft… HAHAHAHA

            Oh my god she was being serious about the LGBTQIA community being super supportive, like…

            Have you actually ever actually been around another LGBTQIA person in your ENTIRE life? Sure, we support each other when there’s a bigot going for our throats, but when there’s no enemies present, honey, the claws come out. I’ve seen gay men get the crap beat out of them because they made the mistake of glancing at someone else’s boyfriend a little suggestively. I’ve seen drag queens become WWE referees at IHOP at 3am trying to stop fights, only for someone to spout a racist slur and get flattened, immediately, by said drag queen.

            AND YET YOU’RE STUPID ENOUGH TO ARGUE WITH ME AFTER I TELL YOU HOW THE FUCK IT IS, BITCH.

            I’ve also seen a drag queen take off her wig and use it as a flail against someone who was just being bitchy to her, so…

            SO YOU DID NOT LEARN FROM IT, NO SHIT.

            This ain’t RuPaul’s best friend race, and just because me and you both fit under the Rainbow Umbrella doesn’t mean we’re gonna be besties. I support you in that you should be able to love or fuck whoever you wanna love or fuck (or NOT love or fuck, if you’re aro/ace, you belong) but you being LGBTQIA doesn’t mean you don’t get held to account for your bullshit by other LGBTQIA people.

            YOU ARE BEING HELD ACCOUNTABLE FOR YOUR ACTIONS. STOP BEING BIGOTS, BE REAL PEOPLE, STOP INSULTING THE LGBTQIA+ COMMUNITY BY PRETENDING TO BE PART OF IT WHEN SOMEONE WHO REALLY IS DECXIDES TO HOLD YOU ACCOUNTABLE FOR YOUR DUMBFUCK ACTIONS, TROLL.

            YOU ARE WHY I HATE STRAIGHT PEOPLE.

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              oferated
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              @Selira Is this RG?

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                mietze @junipersky
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                @junipersky eh maybe. Last year first day of school I had a child literally flip a shelf of fragile objects when they didn’t want to transition to the next activity and then later injure me by throwing a chair at me which i had to eat so it wouldn’t hit the other child behind me. And like another one pooped in the sandbox.

                This person’s weird attempts to troll seem more like robust farting than all out poop in the sandbox? But maybe I have a high tolerance.

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                  Selira @oferated
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                  @oferated yeah. don’t engage.

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                    oferated @Selira
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                    @Selira lmao. Wasn’t going to. Makes a lot more sense now though.

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                    • PavelP
                      Pavel @mietze
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                      @mietze Or we’re just so jaded from years of MUdom, teaching, and parenthood that this is nothing.

                      He/Him. Opinions and views are solely my own unless specifically stated otherwise.
                      BE AN ADULT

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                      • TezT
                        Tez Administrators
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                        I think it’s pretty obvious why HannahBanana has been banned, but just in case it’s not obvious, I don’t care where you are: ablelist language isn’t okay, gatekeeping sexuality isn’t okay, none of this is okay.

                        she/they

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                        • PavelP
                          Pavel
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                          I really want to know who she thinks I am… it’s not like the one time I got fired from staff (and not banned, weirdly) is a secret.

                          He/Him. Opinions and views are solely my own unless specifically stated otherwise.
                          BE AN ADULT

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                            Tanvia @Tez
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                            @Tez How can it be obvious? She’s obviously an incredibly stable and kind individual who has no difficulties communicating with other adults in a mature manner.

                            I’m mostly wondering what she’s hoping to accomplish here by literally shrieking like a banshee at people who aren’t even remotely involved.

                            If anyone wants popcorn, it’s in the microwave.

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                              GF @Tanvia
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                              @Tanvia said in Silent Heaven: Gaslight, Gatekeep, Girlboss:

                              I’m mostly wondering what she’s hoping to accomplish here by literally shrieking like a banshee at people who aren’t even remotely involved.

                              Hence my dig about drama-farming. Given the approach and obvious outcome, nothing else makes sense to me.

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                              • MegM
                                Meg @Tanvia
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                                @Tanvia excuse me, i only take kettle-cooked popcorn.

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                                  Wizz
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                                  [just all of it]

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                                  • somasatoriS
                                    somasatori @HannahBananna
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                                    @HannahBananna said in Silent Heaven: Gaslight, Gatekeep, Girlboss:

                                    @Adora said in Silent Heaven: Gaslight, Gatekeep, Girlboss:

                                    Pffft… ffffft… HAHAHAHA
                                    This ain’t RuPaul’s best friend race, and just because me and you both fit under the Rainbow Umbrella doesn’t mean we’re gonna be besties. I support you in that you should be able to love or fuck whoever you wanna love or fuck (or NOT love or fuck, if you’re aro/ace, you belong) but you being LGBTQIA doesn’t mean you don’t get held to account for your bullshit by other LGBTQIA people.

                                    YOU ARE BEING HELD ACCOUNTABLE FOR YOUR ACTIONS. STOP BEING BIGOTS, BE REAL PEOPLE, STOP INSULTING THE LGBTQIA+ COMMUNITY BY PRETENDING TO BE PART OF IT WHEN SOMEONE WHO REALLY IS DECXIDES TO HOLD YOU ACCOUNTABLE FOR YOUR DUMBFUCK ACTIONS, TROLL.

                                    YOU ARE WHY I HATE STRAIGHT PEOPLE.

                                    Fuckin’ LMAO.

                                    I feel like Hannah set a new record in going from zero to showing their whole ass.

                                    they/them

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                                      oferated @Pavel
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                                      @Pavel said in Silent Heaven: Gaslight, Gatekeep, Girlboss:

                                      I really want to know who she thinks I am… it’s not like the one time I got fired from staff (and not banned, weirdly) is a secret.

                                      She said in her first reply to you, I think. Daed from Haven. IDK anything about him being banned from Haven and I’m not inclined to go find out, but he used to be the one banning her on the regular. Like, when I played from… 2013-2017? She was a weekly occurrence, more or less. Sometimes way more.

                                      They are just a deeply unwell person who goes nuclear at even the mildest hint of perceived negativity.

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                                        Rinel @oferated
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                                        @oferated said in Silent Heaven: Gaslight, Gatekeep, Girlboss:

                                        @Pavel said in Silent Heaven: Gaslight, Gatekeep, Girlboss:

                                        I really want to know who she thinks I am… it’s not like the one time I got fired from staff (and not banned, weirdly) is a secret.

                                        She said in her first reply to you, I think. Daed from Haven. IDK anything about him being banned from Haven and I’m not inclined to go find out, but he used to be the one banning her on the regular. Like, when I played from… 2013-2017? She was a weekly occurrence, more or less. Sometimes way more.

                                        They are just a deeply unwell person who goes nuclear at even the mildest hint of perceived negativity.

                                        Oh, so she’s a known quantity? I kind of liked it being a whirlwind out of nowhere.

                                        She sounds like she needs a lot of help.

                                        bird's still the word

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                                        • PavelP
                                          Pavel @oferated
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                                          @oferated said in Silent Heaven: Gaslight, Gatekeep, Girlboss:

                                          She said in her first reply to you, I think.

                                          Oh, like I did more than skim anything she wrote.

                                          I have no idea who that is, so I am disappointed.

                                          @oferated said in Silent Heaven: Gaslight, Gatekeep, Girlboss:

                                          They are just a deeply unwell person who goes nuclear at even the mildest hint of perceived negativity.

                                          I used to be like that. But now I’m a deeply unwell person who journals.

                                          He/Him. Opinions and views are solely my own unless specifically stated otherwise.
                                          BE AN ADULT

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                                            NotSanni @Rinel
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                                            @Rinel said in Silent Heaven: Gaslight, Gatekeep, Girlboss:

                                            @oferated said in Silent Heaven: Gaslight, Gatekeep, Girlboss:

                                            @Pavel said in Silent Heaven: Gaslight, Gatekeep, Girlboss:

                                            I really want to know who she thinks I am… it’s not like the one time I got fired from staff (and not banned, weirdly) is a secret.

                                            She said in her first reply to you, I think. Daed from Haven. IDK anything about him being banned from Haven and I’m not inclined to go find out, but he used to be the one banning her on the regular. Like, when I played from… 2013-2017? She was a weekly occurrence, more or less. Sometimes way more.

                                            They are just a deeply unwell person who goes nuclear at even the mildest hint of perceived negativity.

                                            Oh, so she’s a known quantity? I kind of liked it being a whirlwind out of nowhere.

                                            She sounds like she needs a lot of help.

                                            Yeah. She reads like “RG”, or “rage girl”, who’s haunting Haven for quite some time - since the beginning, as far as I can recall. I’m guessing she’s gotten bored with Haven and is trying to find where older Haven players have migrated to (I haven’t checked in a while, but the last time I was paying attention to Haven Tyr was making some supes unpopular decisions). But the vibe I’ve always gotten has been “either a troll, or very unwell”.

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