Bannings
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derp, this thread’s anger summed up in two words:
we are not a community.
We were.
Not to dismiss that anger at all, but just to speak for myself, I always considered complete and utter dipshits like Derp and Ghost to be the narcissistic and annoying outliers in an otherwise pretty decent and engaging group of people that they just happened to desperately seek to belong to. To be frank everyone who kept me coming back to the boards for five years or whatever are more or less here now.
Y’all didn’t lose the community, you lost a website and a few bad apples. Personally that’s just one big ¯_(ツ)_/¯ to me, even if it was one of the shittier ways it could have happened.
I am bummed Gany made the decisions she made, that’s certainly disappointing from someone I have had a lot of respect for, but hopefully she sees the light someday. As for the other pigs wallowing in the mud back there…I mean, nothing of value was lost imho and I always figured they were bound to drop off under the weight of their own toxicity eventually.
Hope you all can find some healing in getting away from all that.
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@Wizz To jump on this, I agree. And like Wizz, the people I actually would rather interact with(even the ones I don’t always agree with)are already here, so there was nothing lost.
We can look at this from perspective of ‘something that was lost’, but anything really lost? And if there was, was there anything worth mourning over? To be frank, I don’t believe that whatever was lost isn’t worth the emotional spenditure involved.
The community has simply evolved, and to me, that is one of the universal constants. Nothing is static, nothing stays the way it’s always been, it is always changing. I believe the format here has taken the changes needed in stride, taking the best parts of what we like so much about this community while at the same changing to accommodate with the times. To me, this seems more like distillation of what’s good about it, as opposed to what we perceive was ‘everything that could have of been and left behind’.
Does that mean we’re better? I think that’s a subjective question and I don’t want give myself an over-inflated feeling of self-importance. What I do think is that keep to the spirit of what brought us here in the first place, while not feeling like everything needs to be placed through this artificially created ‘niceness’ filter. That’s already done naturally because, by and large, the majority of people here already respect each other as human beings, without the fear of feeling like we need to subjected to draconian rules to keep the masses under control.
To put a sickening sweet point to this. It’s not the forum that makes the community, it’s the community that makes the forum.
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What the hell happened I am so confused
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Nothing worth mentioning. Glad you found your way here though!
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Sinister BMD plot to destroy MSB called “sit back and let Derp talk” proceeding according to plan
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@Pixel There’s a new horse clique. Thats about it.
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@IoleRae Thanks! Glad to be here.
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Are all the banned really banned if they come here, read the posts, and in @bear_necessities case have them linked so they can argue across boards? Just a thought occurring to me this week.
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Are all the banned really banned if they come here, read the posts, and in @bear_necessities case have them linked so they can argue across boards? Just a thought occurring to me this week.
lie on face Please don’t argue across boards. That’s not a mod call, that’s just a personal plea. It never, ever ends well, and tends to sour the atmosphere on every board involved.
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Are all the banned really banned if they come here, read the posts, and in @bear_necessities case have them linked so they can argue across boards? Just a thought occurring to me this week.
lie on face Please don’t argue across boards. That’s not a mod call, that’s just a personal plea. It never, ever ends well, and tends to sour the atmosphere on every board involved.
Agree, it’s just not a great look
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Are all the banned really banned if they come here, read the posts, and in @bear_necessities case have them linked so they can argue across boards? Just a thought occurring to me this week.
lie on face Please don’t argue across boards. That’s not a mod call, that’s just a personal plea. It never, ever ends well, and tends to sour the atmosphere on every board involved.
It also involves talking to people you don’t like who won’t listen to you or care about what you think. That’s just bad for the blood pressure.
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Are all the banned really banned if they come here, read the posts, and in @bear_necessities case have them linked so they can argue across boards? Just a thought occurring to me this week.
lie on face Please don’t argue across boards.
And it’s confusing for those of us with certain posters still blocked on msb.
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Are all the banned really banned if they come here, read the posts, and in @bear_necessities case have them linked so they can argue across boards? Just a thought occurring to me this week.
lie on face Please don’t argue across boards. That’s not a mod call, that’s just a personal plea. It never, ever ends well, and tends to sour the atmosphere on every board involved.
And not for nothing, but I by no means want to give anyone on MSB the idea that they live rent free in anyone’s head. Because they’re not worth the time.
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Walking into that place blind was a trip. Gaslit at light speed. I’m still reeling.
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Are all the banned really banned if they come here, read the posts, and in @bear_necessities case have them linked so they can argue across boards? Just a thought occurring to me this week.
lie on face Please don’t argue across boards. That’s not a mod call, that’s just a personal plea. It never, ever ends well, and tends to sour the atmosphere on every board involved.
I don’t think @tsar was saying we should argue across boards, just that Derp is apparently super obsessed with me for whatever reason and keeps coming back here to give more ammo for whatever he’s claiming we’re doing to them.
Derp, get over it, I’m just not that into you.
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@bear_necessities I may be oblivious on this because I haven’t been reading the other board. But, what did you say that’d cause that? Not saying it’s not true or anything.
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@Testament i’m mostly being sarcastic. He recently linked to my post here as “proof” that we are continuing to be terrorists or whatever. And before that, it was either him or Gany that @tted me on MSB for no apparent reason.
But, mostly making a joke
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Are all the banned really banned if they come here, read the posts, and in @bear_necessities case have them linked so they can argue across boards? Just a thought occurring to me this week.
lie on face Please don’t argue across boards. That’s not a mod call, that’s just a personal plea. It never, ever ends well, and tends to sour the atmosphere on every board involved.
That wasn’t something I was suggesting anyone here do.
I was commenting on the bizarre state of them having banned a poster, only to find their posts on this board, to go back and argue about/with them across outer space.
I don’t think it’s worthwhile to attempt to argue across boards. And I’m a little hurt that it feels like you were assuming I was encouraging people to do that.
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I mean, SOME OF US were banned despite not breaking any rules, so. Not much of a choice on where to do the thing.
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When I was a kid I had a friend whose parents were getting divorced, and when I would go over there it would be really weird to hear the dad dropping comments that were clearly meant to make my friend feel like his mom was a bad person.
That’s what it felt like being over there for the hot minute I was, lacking the context of y’alls long history.
