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    Is friendship bad?

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    • FloofF
      Floof
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      I’ve developed a very sensitive NOPE reflex over the years, which might be why I’ve grown with like two close friends from back when we all sucked at boundaries (both incoming and outgoing), but neither of them really MU anymore.

      It does make joining games a little less fun, honestly.

      Playlist

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      • kalakhK
        kalakh
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        Clique is a word that has lost all meaning, to the point where trying to use it when it’s actually applicable means it just gets lost in the noise of everyone and their dog referring to any friend group (or in a lot of cases, perceived friend group that may or may not exist) of which they’re not a part as a clique.

        To some degree I can understand why it happens, but it’s a big personal peeve, and it does indeed compound the idea that being friends with people in this hobby is in some way a bad thing that must be justified, but which will always be seen as slightly shady, particularly if any of those friends is in some sort of authoritative position (or, heaven forbid, most/all of them).

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        • MourneM
          Mourne
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          Friendship is not bad.

          Friendship is amazing.

          Being an exclusionary twit, that is bad.

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          • PavelP
            Pavel
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            I’ve got friends. Even one or two from MUing. As a matter of course I never deal with them ‘professionally’ in any capacity, MU or RL.

            That’s how I keep friends.

            He/Him. Opinions and views are solely my own unless specifically stated otherwise.
            BE AN ADULT

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            • AnhedoniaA
              Anhedonia
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              @Rathenhope

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                Rathenhope @Anhedonia
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                @Anhedonia

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                  dvoraen
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                  Shrek donkey

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                  • hellfrogH
                    hellfrog
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                    it’s still bad

                    fr fr
                    (she/her)

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                      Testament
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                      I don't know what I'm doing. Poke at Seven Nations sevennations.aresmush.com port 2021

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                      • AnhedoniaA
                        Anhedonia @Rathenhope
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                        @Rathenhope believe it or not I somehow did this after trying to ‘x’ out of BMD in the middle of a work meeting. I am become boomer.

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                          catzilla
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                          Friendship bad. Only enemies and lone wolves sitting in their dark corners of the tavern.

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                            dvoraen @Testament
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                            @Testament This picture is almost a verbatim quote from NieR: Automata. In a pretty heavy plot point.

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                              STD @dvoraen
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                              @dvoraen said in Is friendship bad?:

                              @Testament This picture is almost a verbatim quote from NieR: Automata. In a pretty heavy plot point.

                              I thought the heavy plot point was the robot chick’s ass.

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                              • somasatoriS
                                somasatori @STD
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                                @STD said in Is friendship bad?:

                                @dvoraen said in Is friendship bad?:

                                @Testament This picture is almost a verbatim quote from NieR: Automata. In a pretty heavy plot point.

                                I thought the heavy plot point was the robot chick’s ass.

                                The correct terminology is “thicc” I think.

                                they/them

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                                • tenT
                                  ten
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                                  Friendship is good.

                                  I have made some amazing friendships.

                                  Everyone else is like someone you see in a grocery store.

                                  sup

                                  they | them

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                                  • BloodAngelB
                                    BloodAngel
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                                    friendship is magic

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                                    • WizzW
                                      Wizz
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                                      everyone is my buddy til they do something very unbuddylike.

                                      then they’re just a probationary pal.

                                      further demotion to chum is possible but from there it’s only a slippery slope down to duder, sport, and then “oh hey, that person”

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                                      • CoinC
                                        Coin @Wizz
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                                        @Wizz said in Is friendship bad?:

                                        everyone is my buddy til they do something very unbuddylike.

                                        then they’re just a probationary pal.

                                        further demotion to chum is possible but from there it’s only a slippery slope down to duder, sport, and then “oh hey, that person”

                                        listen, pal

                                        In Occam I trust.

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                                          Wizz @Coin
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                                          @Coin

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                                            Testament @Coin
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                                            @Coin now hold on there, buddy

                                            I don't know what I'm doing. Poke at Seven Nations sevennations.aresmush.com port 2021

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