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    • helveticaH
      helvetica @bear_necessities
      last edited by helvetica

      I would like the record to reflect that I just threw what I felt was some well-earned shade. I didn’t come for anybody’s neck. That said, people are on these streets making @bear_necessities and I agree on things.

      Street Cred

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      • bear_necessitiesB
        bear_necessities @helvetica
        last edited by

        @helvetica said in MU Peeves Thread:

        That said, people are on these streets making @bear_necessities and I agree on things.

        The horror, the horror! lol but I honestly can’t remember the last time I disagreed with you on something so maybe the world is righting itself.

        Either that or my memory is failing me because I’m 40 now 😞

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          Alveraxus @helvetica
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          Yeah, point taken. Wasn’t my intent, just thought it was an interesting discussion on a topic relevant to my interests, but I see how it could be taken that way looking back at the comments. My apologies.

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          • tenT
            ten
            last edited by

            protect ya

            they | them

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              Testament @helvetica
              last edited by

              @helvetica Always remember that Wu Tang is for the children.

              I don't know what I'm doing. Poke at Seven Nations sevennations.aresmush.com port 2021

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                Pacha @Roz
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                @Roz

                (sorry for the late reply to this, it just felt like a big question to answer)

                I think there is a mix to be found?

                Speaking from my experience as a gay man, I played on a lot of RPI MUDs before I found MUSH games, and many of them would say something like “We allow LGBT characters! We have no rule against it!!” but would leave out the context that the IC world was heavily biased against it and that whenever an LGBT character became known, they would be swiftly murdered in short order, as an example.

                TW: Transphobic violence

                In fact, in one game I played on, killing a player would leave that player’s corpse as an object, which players could leave a pose/status on for anyone who walked through the grid space subsequently to see. It was meant to be used as a bit of immersive worldbuilding. Walking in on the corpse of one of my character’s friends (a trans woman) and seeing exactly how (and how apparently gleefully) my fellow players had chosen to describe mutilating her body was one of the most disturbing experiences I have had on any MU game and put me off the genre completely for a number of years.

                So, discovering MUSH games which seemed largely to have moved past that was a revelation. I am happy almost every MUSH I have played was happy with me wanting to play a character who represents me, for example. I would not want to play on any game which centred real world themes of racism/homophobia/misogyny and other issues like that, because I ultimately MU as a form of escapism.

                If a MU game wanted to incorporate other elements - L&L games for example, almost always deal with issues of classism to some extent, though in a far more high fantasy setting than we might experience day to day. Or a fantasy game where there was a racial prejudice between elves and dwarves, or something. I think for me those are much more deal-able with and tend to be slightly less visceral because there is an added layer of separation.

                Obviously as players we all have prejudices and blind spots that we can’t help but bring IC with us, but in terms of my MU games I would generally prefer the common modern prejudices not to be there, even if the world is flawed in other ways.

                But then that is also just my subjective feelings on the subject. So someone else might feel differently (and rightly so).

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                • RozR
                  Roz @Pacha
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                  @Pacha said in MU Peeves Thread:

                  @Roz
                  TW: Transphobic violence

                  In fact, in one game I played on, killing a player would leave that player’s corpse as an object, which players could leave a pose/status on for anyone who walked through the grid space subsequently to see. It was meant to be used as a bit of immersive worldbuilding. Walking in on the corpse of one of my character’s friends (a trans woman) and seeing exactly how (and how apparently gleefully) my fellow players had chosen to describe mutilating her body was one of the most disturbing experiences I have had on any MU game and put me off the genre completely for a number of years.

                  jesus fucking christ

                  she/her | playlist

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                  • helveticaH
                    helvetica
                    last edited by helvetica

                    Mild Bummer Peeve: Introduced idea of Thing to Do©, got undermined with this “ok, but” attitude and the moment passed. Which is what it is… like, if someone isn’t interested in doing what you’re doing, that’s life. Except the vibe shift almost took permission away from other people to show interest? I know that gatekeeping was not at all the intention. Which is all me overthinking the sentiment: this was disappointing and getting that momentum back during a hard work week didn’t happen as naturally as I would have liked.

                    Street Cred

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                      Roadspike @Tez
                      last edited by

                      @Tez said in MU Peeves Thread:

                      Side peeve: why do games insist that they are in beta for years?

                      Agreed. I wish that MU*s used the alpha/beta/gold terminology like most video games do. It would make it much clearer what stage of development the game is in and what sort of experience to expect.

                      Alpha: Hammering on theme and systems, making sure there aren’t any obvious bugs.

                      Beta: Testing with a wider audience, looking for anything that a smaller alpha group didn’t find.

                      Gold: Ready for full release to the public – changes can still come when necessary (patches!).

                      Formerly known as Seraphim73 (he/him)

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                      • EvilgraysonE
                        Evilgrayson @hellfrog
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                        @hellfrog said in MU Peeves Thread:

                        everyone wants to take down The Man! everyone has different ideas for how to do it and wants the credit

                        Everyone wants to take down The Man, until they themselves are The Man, at which point everyone else has to be delighted with the idea and nothing can ever go wrong ever again…

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                        • tenT
                          ten
                          last edited by ten

                          starting to chisel away at the creative block.

                          I need a new game.

                          (everything I’ve tried lately hasn’t been sticking; I’m getting restless. I may have to resort to writing mediocre flash fiction.)

                          they | them

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                          • KestrelK
                            Kestrel
                            last edited by

                            eggshells 🫤

                            Feeling like … I can only scene with you as long as I am very polite and mindful and watch my step and am on my best behaviour. Which is a very reasonable thing to expect of anyone. But also I don’t like feeling tense like that, so if RP always feels like a first date or a job interview, I think I would rather just avoid and hang out with friends who take themselves less seriously and let me fart around.

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                            • Third EyeT
                              Third Eye @Kestrel
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                              @Kestrel said in MU Peeves Thread:

                              Feeling like … I can only scene with you as long as I am very polite and mindful and watch my step and am on my best behaviour.

                              This is death to me and any kind of interesting RP interaction. Also just…human interaction. Because when this happens it doesn’t feel like these people want courtesy or basic consideration, it feels like they want me to prioritize them at all times and edit my behavior to some moving goalpost that’ll please them and…no.

                              I want something else to get me through this
                              Semi-charmed kinda life, baby, baby
                              I want something else, I'm not listening when you say good-bye

                              She/Her or They/Them

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                              • J
                                Juniper
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                                If it feels like someone is constantly on a hair trigger waiting to flip out about the smallest thing, I wish them well and get the fuck out of there. Life is too short to walk on eggshells. And as already stated, the goalposts always seem to change.

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                                • SnacknessS
                                  Snackness
                                  last edited by

                                  I don’t feel like playing any more and I can’t really identify why. Just waiting to see if it passes.

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                                  • saoS
                                    sao @Snackness
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                                    @Snackness I hope it does ❤ but also taking a break is valid if you need one

                                    let it be a challenge to you

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                                    • Third EyeT
                                      Third Eye @Snackness
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                                      @Snackness
                                      Upvote for solidarity. The muses are fickle. Love playing with you but sometimes you need a hard refresh before you can find them again.

                                      I want something else to get me through this
                                      Semi-charmed kinda life, baby, baby
                                      I want something else, I'm not listening when you say good-bye

                                      She/Her or They/Them

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                                      • FloofF
                                        Floof
                                        last edited by

                                        When the brain weasels are too powerful

                                        Playlist

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                                        • saoS
                                          sao @Floof
                                          last edited by

                                          @Floof nooooooo weasellllllllllll

                                          let it be a challenge to you

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                                          • T
                                            Testament
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                                            Not having enough time to finish a fucking application.

                                            I don't know what I'm doing. Poke at Seven Nations sevennations.aresmush.com port 2021

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