Numetal/Retromux
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@Roz said in Numetal/Retromux:
@MisterBoring Absolutely don’t do a three strike system for blatant, overt, and purposeful flouting of rules like that. Like, at most give the player one single warning.
But the real answer is the first option: ban them. There’s absolutely no need to entertain that sort of OOC sneakery.
Doing anything else will encourage some people to do it until they get caught, knowing they had a freebie.
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@Roadspike I am trying to imagine how you could accidentally make an alt.
Like… I make characters pretty easily but it’s a volitional act.
let it be a challenge to you
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@sao The same way you accidentally sleep with your partner’s best friend. You slip and fall face first onto ‘create “Alt Character” %PASSWORD%’.
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@sao said in Numetal/Retromux:
I am trying to imagine how you could accidentally make an alt.
I will admit I have done this once. Here are the details:
This was around 2013 and I honestly don’t remember what game it was (if you happened to be staff there, and recall this, HI!). I was off sick from work, and sitting at my computer delirious from fever and I decided to join a new game. I check it out as a guest, look at their wiki, decide on a concept and then build a character, all while under the effects of OTC cold medicine and general malaise. I submit the character for approval, which required an email address to be associated with the bit, log off of the game, and end up falling asleep while watching Lost In Space.
I promptly in my sleep forget about the character and end up staying in bed with the flu for 2 more days, during which, my initial character gets approved without any changes needed. When I finally get over my flu and sit back down at my computer, I decide to find a new game to play and pick the same game from when I was sick. It doesn’t even dawn on me that there’s a reason I have the game saved in my MU Client. I create an entirely new character from scratch, submit it for approval with the same email address, and almost immediately get a page from staff, “Hey, are you sure you want an alt already? You haven’t even RPed with your first character since they were approved.”
I immediately felt so embarrassed about the situation that I logged off and ghosted that game without playing either character.
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@Gashlycrumb said in Numetal/Retromux:
In over thirty years of playing these damn things I have been banned once, and it was, as far as I could tell, for asking another player for their contact info and explaining that I was gonna quit since Staffer had made clear their intention to exclude me indefinitely. I’ve been threatened with banning for telling a staffer that it “felt railroady” to not be allowed to attempt a con that NPCs were already doing. The recent actual banning that had me raising eyebrows was for the hideous crime of paging people asking for RP when those people wanted to avoid the pager but did not want to go so far as to ask the pager not to contact them. That shit is harsh.
Actually, Scarpia, I banned you for being a psychic vampire who tested the patience of various players within and outside of your sphere. The reasons why you might have drawn the wrong conclusion is because you were paging people constantly bitching about the game and they told me that you were a gigantic fucking buzz kill and they were avoiding you. Funnily enough it’s essentially the same reason that retro banned Ryen: what’d they say again? “When everyone is avoiding you it’s time to go”?
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@sao I was trying to come up with a situation too, but I couldn’t. I did want to leave the door open, because there are very few things I want to be an absolutist about.
I could imagine something like the delirium situation @MisterBoring mentioned, or it being a month or two in between creating a character you never played and creating a new character because you forgot about the first one, or getting so excited about the concept that you forgot that there were no alts allowed and submitted a new character.
But the response to Staff going, “Um… hold on a sec” would be very telling, and would decide if I went scorched earth or just nuked all but one character and gave them a warning.
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@Roadspike said in Numetal/Retromux:
But the response to Staff going, “Um… hold on a sec” would be very telling, and would decide if I went scorched earth or just nuked all but one character and gave them a warning.
My response in my situation was literally:
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Whoops, @Gashlycrumb I was out somewhere doin’ thangs and forgot to evidentiate what i’m talking about.
You’re Scarpia, here’s how i know,
Took me a minute to find it because I forgot I blocked you the day I banned you because you never respond to boundaries with “OK”, you’d respond to them with fucking Atlas Shrugged. That’s the problem. You wouldn’t leave people alone.
et cetera. And this is what I can find by half-ass looking for your screen name on Discord while I’m on vacation. I wonder what is actually on my harddrive at home. Point is, no, nobody is ever banned for one tiny little harmless incident. You got banned due to a larger pattern of behavior of repeatedly sandbagging people who didn’t want contact with you.
The line you say of “but did not want to go so far as to ask the pager not to contact them” is just shifting responsibility onto others for not spelling it out for you instead of acknowledging your behavior was draining and unwelcome. And in fact, I think I did spell it out for you, repeatedly, but since I don’t have access to logs since i’m not home, whatever, let’s say I didn’t. You’re still shifting responsibility onto others for not spelling it out, instead of acknowledging your behavior was draining and unwelcome.
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Wait a minute,
@Gashlycrumb said in Numetal/Retromux:The recent actual banning that had me raising eyebrows was for the hideous crime of paging people asking for RP when those people wanted to avoid the pager but did not want to go so far as to ask the pager not to contact them. That shit is harsh.
So you’re admitting people were avoiding you and spin it as their fault for not giving you a formal ‘do not talk to me’ WHILE dismissing the whole thing sarcastically as a “hideous crime”? Bruh. That’s WILD. Shit like this is why I banned you, man, boundary disrespecting shit like this right here.
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@Pavel said in Numetal/Retromux:
Hey @LeeRoyBatty, when can we run a FATAL game?
I have several better ideas, but gotta kidnap that coder…
@Pavel said in Numetal/Retromux:
@Alamias No excuse, please commit seppuku by dawn tomorrow, thank you.
I can only assume this means L5R, which is on the list, so go go go? A discussion to be had elsewhere.
@labsunlimited said in Numetal/Retromux:
We all have to share the spotlight on a MU* or this kind of thing happens. I sometimes wonder if WOD could have been better if the mechanics and narrative were better suited to that, like the 2013 MET LARP ruleset, since that’s designed for games of like 15-20 people over 3-5 in tabletop.
I’m on record somewhere agreeing with this, it could stand a test run somewhere if nobody has tried it yet.
@Jumpscare said in Numetal/Retromux:
@dvoraen said in Numetal/Retromux:
I couldn’t think of how to do an inverse to “Hog Pit.”
First you ban someone who replied to a do-not-interact request with “message received.” The rest just happens organically.
First, we need to foolishly hand over the keys to a robot cat lawyer.
