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    • somasatoriS
      somasatori @Pacha
      last edited by

      @Pacha said in MU Peeves Thread:

      I always find it a bit creepy when it is clear someone has someone else on watch and they start gushing over them on the channel when they log in, but haven’t even ; waved or said ‘hi’ yet.

      It also kind of bums me out if I end up logging in day after day and get tumbleweeds, but there is very clearly a group that are friends and treat each other logging on like the second coming of Jesus or something.

      Obviously there is nothing objectively wrong with these behaviours and people can say hi to who they want. But, it is a peeves thread and I am allowed to find the behaviour personally irritating, also!

      Seconding this. Sometimes I just need a minute to get my bearings, especially if I’m coming from work, dealing with the kids, trying to settle down myself. We’re no longer in the glomps era. The age of glomp is over, the time of “hey” has come.

      they/them

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      • C
        catzilla
        last edited by

        I like a good meowdy

        meowdy

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        • helveticaH
          helvetica @catzilla
          last edited by

          @catzilla elders respond

          Street Cred

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          • Third EyeT
            Third Eye @catzilla
            last edited by

            @catzilla said in MU Peeves Thread:

            I like a good meowdy

            Only greeting I’m responding to from now on.

            I want something else to get me through this
            Semi-charmed kinda life, baby, baby
            I want something else, I'm not listening when you say good-bye

            She/Her or They/Them

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            • DeviantD
              Deviant @Snackness
              last edited by

              @Snackness

              I do wish there were a way to tag people in Ares so it gives them a channel notification.

              Not everyone likes me, but not everyone matters.

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              • J
                Juniper
                last edited by Juniper

                I am just not the sort of person to greet newcomers like a Labrador Retriever aggressively licking your face.

                I’m more like an old tortoiseshell cat who’s in the house… somewhere. And will probably notice your presence within the hour, or when you shake the treat bag.

                You guys are socialising in channels? That’s wild.

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                • P
                  Pyrephox Administrators
                  last edited by

                  I enjoy socializing in channels! I will usually say hi if I happen to be looking at it. Admittedly, on Ares, I often am not looking at it. Or I’m distracted. So it’s a bit of a shotgun friendliness punctuated by long periods of doing something else.

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                  • hellfrogH
                    hellfrog
                    last edited by

                    yeah, like I will absolutely say HI to 3 people and then immediately leave the keys for any amount of time, so it’s always going to be sporadic.

                    I def get the other side, sometimes I also get that whole ‘ok but why not me am i not fun’ and then I have to remind myself of all the contradicting evidence

                    fr fr
                    (she/her)

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                      Pyrephox Administrators @hellfrog
                      last edited by

                      @hellfrog said in MU Peeves Thread:

                      yeah, like I will absolutely say HI to 3 people and then immediately leave the keys for any amount of time, so it’s always going to be sporadic.

                      I def get the other side, sometimes I also get that whole ‘ok but why not me am i not fun’ and then I have to remind myself of all the contradicting evidence

                      This is a big thing. I absolutely do this myself, even though I know a) it’s not true, and it’s b) me actively ruining my own enjoyment over things I am making up in my head.

                      My peeve really is me.

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                      • V
                        Val
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                        I want people to feel welcome, but I don’t want to engage because I’m tired as fuck or distracted as hell. I’m happy to see you. I just need a nap and four more hours in the day.

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                        • SnacknessS
                          Snackness @Val
                          last edited by

                          @Val This needs to go on a t-shirt

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                          • KestrelK
                            Kestrel
                            last edited by Kestrel

                            The above discussion is why I will not have logon messages if I make a game.

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                            • SpaceKhomeiniS
                              SpaceKhomeini
                              last edited by SpaceKhomeini

                              My level of channel engagement is completely random and subject to the ebb and flow of my energy level, that includes greetings.

                              That being said, it’s never really occurred to me that people would feel miffed by my lack of attention; I just subconsciously assume they thought they dodged a bullet.

                              I woke up feeling so good, I think I’d better call in sick/ I need a personal trainer to help me hold my drink
                              I plan to be spontaneous next time we meet/I’m putting off procrastinating until next week
                              I’ll get onto it when I give a shit

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                              • SpaceKhomeiniS
                                SpaceKhomeini @catzilla
                                last edited by

                                @catzilla

                                Super troopers meow

                                I woke up feeling so good, I think I’d better call in sick/ I need a personal trainer to help me hold my drink
                                I plan to be spontaneous next time we meet/I’m putting off procrastinating until next week
                                I’ll get onto it when I give a shit

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                                  RightMeow @SpaceKhomeini
                                  last edited by

                                  @SpaceKhomeini You called?

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                                  • CobaltC
                                    Cobalt
                                    last edited by Cobalt

                                    Ngl, I do get a little sad when I say “hi game” or “hello folks” and not a single person responds. But also, no one is required to greet me. Sometimes people do, and sometimes they don’t and I tell my goblin brain to stop being an idiot and assuming it’s because they HATE me and rather they are probably busy.

                                    Except when they immediately greet someone else within a minute time frame. Then my goblin brain wins.

                                    Cobalt@Under the Stars
                                    cob.alt@Discord
                                    Cobalt#[email protected]

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                                    • tenT
                                      ten
                                      last edited by

                                      how bored you gotta be when you scene with yourself

                                      take a nap

                                      they | them

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                                      • DeviantD
                                        Deviant @ten
                                        last edited by

                                        @ten

                                        But just imagine how good the TS is! They both know exactly what the other wants!

                                        Not everyone likes me, but not everyone matters.

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                                        • PavelP
                                          Pavel @ten
                                          last edited by

                                          @ten said in MU Peeves Thread:

                                          how bored you gotta be when you scene with yourself

                                          I scene with myself all the time, I just don’t go to the effort of posting it.

                                          He/Him. Opinions and views are solely my own unless specifically stated otherwise.
                                          BE AN ADULT

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                                          • hellfrogH
                                            hellfrog
                                            last edited by

                                            @ten said in MU Peeves Thread:

                                            how bored you gotta be when you scene with yourself

                                            take a nap

                                            I just
                                            I don’t get it
                                            how are you gonna win the cooperative game, doing this
                                            why do you want to?

                                            weird. PLS EXPLAIN

                                            fr fr
                                            (she/her)

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